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So, me and my ex broke up because of her feelings for another guy which were, in her opinion, perhaps too strong to stay with me. Now, not even two months later — during which I did NC and quite successfully have maintained emotional communication with her — she feeds me with her feelings yet for someone else. At the same time, though, she’s very jealous when it comes to women around me and today texted me just to enquire about a date I had yesterday. What do you think this means?
If I had to wager a guess, I would say she still has some feelings for you but wants to “explore” other guys so she is hoping you will sit around and be her backup if things go south. My advice is to not let yourself be led on, theres a difference between her coming back to you when you two are not talking and her coming back if you two are still very close. One requires her to put in effort to reconnect, the other is more along the lines of settling. I have been the second choice before, its not fun and I would not recommend it. So be friendly but do not be her best friend and honestly I would not get too emotional or deep if you talk to her, seems like there is a lot of potential there for problems.
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