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She wants to meet up while I’m no contact

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  • January 22, 2015 at 4:29 am #25663
    armanmasangkay
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    Hi, I need help ASAP. I’m on my 15 day of NC right now. My ex contacted me and wants to meet up so that she can give my things back and also ask for her things. I told her the place and time where we can meet. After that, I didn’t reply to her questions about the relationship. She said I was bitter. I replied with the message “I thought you need space and time” and she keeps explaining something all over again. I didn’t mind it and re confirm the place and time to meet. Is that considered to be breaking the no contact rule or is that still okay?

    January 22, 2015 at 7:08 am #25694
    amy90
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    Picking things up is fine in no contact (so I’ve heard), as long as you don’t stick around
    Be upbeat but don’t stick around to chat.

    January 23, 2015 at 12:35 am #25854
    LAbound
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    It doesn’t count against you.

    If she thinks you’re bitter, definitely try to sway her way of thinking on that when you meet up. Try to seem like you are completely fine without her.. but don’t get carried away with it.

    January 23, 2015 at 3:32 am #25864
    armanmasangkay
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    Thanks. So, basically I’ll just give her the things that she wants, try to look completely fine and happy and move out without making any conversation. Right after that, I’ll proceed with NC without restarting it all over again. Is that right?

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