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Hello,
Today is day 27 of my no contact period. I am doing much better than I have since day 1. I’m getting involved in college and don’t think of her too often. Although, i do every once in awhile think of her and still love her. Today, i accidentally noticed that she was online on Facebook. I posted a Facebook status (it wasn’t relevant to her or any sort of emotion that deals with her; it dealt with what I thought about something on social media.) Anyways, i then noticed she disappeared on my friends list like a few minutes after I posted my status. She deleted me as her friend and isn’t following me on twitter. She does have a bf who she has been dating for probably a little over 2 months or a little less. Not sure though how long exactly cuz you know (the no contact) lol. Is her deleting me from fb and twitter evidence she may still not be over me? Could the status have bothered her to see my name because of emotions of missing me and she deleted me? Or do you think she is over me and it has more to do with she wants to forget me? I’m not sure if I want to get back together with her necessarily, but I did want to be friends with her again at the least. In help in matter? Thanks!ugh that has to be tough to see. i deleted my ex immediately after we broke up cause i know that i am not personally strong enough to hold myself back from facebook stalking her.
regardless, shes dating someone else. its time to move on. its possible that she still has feelings of some kind whether that be that shes still hurt and missing you OR simply doesnt want you in her life anymore. but shes dating someone else and is obviously more interested in being with that person than you right now. this all hurts, i know.. and im sorry.
the main thing here is that you deserve someone who wants to be with you and wants to love you and is excited just to be in your company. focus on that and go after it with someone who puts you as a priority in their life
Hey,
There could be million reasons for that.Don’t overanalyze it.Just focus on yourself.You have been doing well.Keep it up.You should continue NC as long as you’re confused.You should make sure if you want her back or not.Remember you are more important than your ex and the most important part of NC is about you not her.
I think you do have to be friends with her later or even get her back.
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