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So me and my ex girlfriend have been together for 8 months, but yesterday she broke up with me because she was tired of fights.
First 3 months of the relationship were perfect, but then we started to have small fights from time to time, the the fights because more frequent.
Reasons of the fights? Well, pretty small things, but that became repetitive. She told me that she recognizes she had her part in the fights, but I also do recognize I have my own part: I continued them, I wanted to make my point and I couldn’t stop when she told me “I am sorry, for real”.
We go to the same gym and we get to workout together (and I can’t help with changing the schedule because I simply can’t, that time is the only time I can go to the gym, same for her)
My question is: how do I perform no contact phase, when I see her 4 days a week? My idea is to act cool and only focus on the workout, and if she has something to talk with me… I only respond to that subject, nothing else. Most importantly: I play it coolI want to do the NC for about a month, and then I want to leave at her house a flower with a note with this symbol “=}” (that’s how I smile in text messages, and I’m the only one who does that, so she knows it’s from me)
That’s funny NOT because of your situation but because I used to think exactly like you do no contact then do something nice or shoot him a text and everything would go back to normal and you may want to try that but honestly take the no contact time to work on yourself and be by yourself, don’t think about the things you want to do for them to come back, rather think about the thing you need to do to become a better person but do it for yourself NOT for them. I would say try harder to work out at another time since Im pretty sure that seeing your ex breaks no contact (even stalking them on social media, and im guilty of this last one). Make her be curious as to what has happened with you the time she hasn’t seen you or heard from you, block her everywhere or at least mute her everywhere so that you don’t see any notifications, I also would say do this for a 1.5 months and then reach out with a casual text, save the flowers for another time.
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