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I made NC for 13 days and when i sent her a voice mail saying : You know what, I’ve been thinking , i really like everything about you exept the last decision u made , if u chanfe ur mind call me ..
She said ( No i am ok
dwI was lkke why she wrote dw not dont worry the full one she never said things like that before ..
so i wrote her …Want to tell you that you were right about the breakup…I guess we do need space.
Amazingly something wonderful happened recently…I guess when things
happen
they happen for a reason…You know what?”
Amazingly something wonderful happened recently…I guess when things happen
they happen for a reason…You know what?” ( i recommend u guys to do that if u want them to talk to u )she freaked out and started asking me if I get engaged …
and after tbat she start talking about she never know what i am doing or where i am and stuff kinda pissed that all of sudden i’ve been quiet
after that she talk about the bad things i did and i jjst answer her with yeah i agree and say stuff about it was bad
she said all my exes have mistaken and they want a 2nd chance …after all the conversation i was so calm in the morning when i woke up i find out that she blocked me..I am thinking of doing NC for long one this time ..or what should i do ? Plz help
I would start no contact all over again, she’s obbiously still hung up on you but if she is bringing up negativity she’s not ready yet.
If she contacts again Do not break the NC rules you have to let her miss you and erase all the negativity in her mind.
I remember after we brokeup she have left me and i was so sad … after a week she back to me and she was so nice j tild her plz call me she said ok and we had a call she was like do u think if i dont have feelings for u i will be here ? I was like i know u love me but lets get back she first said no .. i remind her what we gonna do in future when we live together and how happy we will be and i asked her again
Lets make our life again she said Ok
but the day after she turn to be bad again and start fighting … i think she will back to talk to me after a week or two k am just forckng my self to not contact her … i feel so down i went to gym and workout morethan 3 hours i went home and it driving me crazy i always think of her .. now i m playing game other than the games we play together i havnt touch my ps3 coz its all memories of both of us i am trying to avoid everything make me remember her …So is she suggesting there is a chance, you have to give her time.
It’s difficult everywhere you look she’s there but your right don’t do things that remind you of her, she does love you.
But you both have to let go of all the negativity and the past to move forward.
For now i will do the NC … atm i am gonna move to another state in America so it might help me go over things and i will back to college soon … this will be perfect for me to move on and think about it later until she calm and ready …
Btw How many days or months i should do NC
I would start with 30 days as she has said she can try, do not reply to any messages or phone calls from your ex in this time, she may get angry and question why you are not responding but do not give in! Work on yourself.
Alright its sounds good … i just gonna expext nkthing from her atm so i dont check my phone waiting for her messages coz i had those bad habits.. gonna workout more so when i back from work there is no place to think of her anymore … thanks for help i will try to post from time to time
Best of luck with it all, here to listen anytime! Remember we are all in the same boat 🙂
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