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@KD Agreed. You really have to be comfortable and confident in any of your changes before you make that decision on whether or not to make a choice. This is strictly about you. Once you make it about you, he will open up the door to giving it a second Chance. You have got to make a difference for yourself. Make a list of things you want to improve on, and instead of waiting around to do so, just do it!! Improve on it! Make a difference in YOUR life. As soon as you do that, you’ll gain the confidence you need and you will get a lot of other guys attention!
@Oshi You gave him your apology, and now the next step is to fix that problem you have of rushing things (or whatever the problem is)! For me, I have to catch myself at EVERYTHING I would do and say wrong. It was hard at first and from time to time I have to bite my lip in order to not make a sassy remark. But it has become easier, and I honestly am getting wonderful responses towards his end and watching him improve along with it. You have to be confident and ready to make those changes. So now, just lay low until he texts you first again. Have him initiate the first meet up. When he does, be that person he fell in love with. Because 9 out of 10 chances you are that actual person he remembers, you just got so lost in not only his life but your own life as well which caused you to think twice. Just let things be and do your best to fix you!
@Mj What is the gift?!
My ex emailed me at work yesterday. I was going to ignore it but took a different approach. I mirrored him. How he spoke and what he said. Slowly he started more conversation so I started more too. In the end it was quite a pleasant and funny conversation. I decided to cut it off and said bye. He replied with something that I could have replied to but chose not to! Felt a lot more in control and left him with no answer. Much better!
Yeah I felt much better for it!Hopefully it was the right thing to do. Prob should of just ignored it to be fair lol
hey @divjun how are you? Been a while!
Things are okay, no massive changes to report lol@div hey hope things are good with you.
@ellie guess what the wavelength says 🙂
@kd I feel good too but then one nasty random thought appears and it come crumbling down again
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