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Hi,
My ex broke up with me two days ago. I am on day 2 of no contact and I miss him and I want us to get back together because I think we were good together. I have started my new job today. Anyway I really love him and want him back permantely and have fresh relationship with him and kept the old one in the past. When he broke up with me he said he needs to be on his own and I replied back saying why?? I don’t understand so he replied back saying because I can’t be in a relationship from now onwards I need to be myself and do what I want to do and it means being single i know it’s gunna hurt you but I can’t do it anymore I need to be alone ok sorry so I replied back saying Is there someone else?? he replied back saying No one else I just need to be on my own to spend time with my family and friends and just be a teenager and go out drinking and have fun and go on holiday with the lads and stuff I just can’t be with someone so I said back Why can’t you be with someone, I would never stop you doing stuff, I love you too pieces, I have even been looking to go somewhere for a few days for your birthday, you mean everything to me, I don’t want to lose you, i love you more than any other lad he replied back saying I can’t I’m sorry so I replied back saying I just don’t understand, what’s the real reason?? so he said that I need to be alone ok stop asking stupid questions and just take the fact I’m not want you need I don’t want to be with anyone at all at the moment so I said ok and that was the end of our conversation. I don’t want no one else apart from him. He means a lot to me and I just want him back and I want us to get back together. Do you think he’ll contact me and start to miss me during no contact?? Please someone help me get him back. It will mean everything to me if I got him back and start fresh with our relationship.
Thank you,
Princess12@princess12 – Even though it hurts, you have to accept his word that he wants to be a free teenager on his own. Don’t beg anymore.. He might miss you, but that doesn’t mean he wants you back! He’s young and wants to be single and there’s no way you will be able to change his mind. I’m sorry, but that’s the reality at least for now and maybe for years to come. Try to focus on yourself and don’t hound him.
Good luck with your new job!Only time will tell continue NC for 30days and during this time continue to stay busy hopefully he will reach out if not you deserve better.
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