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  • #62286
    kiok
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    btw that was yesterday so I didnt reply and I was thinking to send her message today

    #62289
    kiok
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    so yeah I reply her and she did responce. At least we are talking but she is serious in conversation. Dont know what to think about that.. I dont want to push her but still I have felling she wants to talk

    #62295
    Leogirl
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    You can keep talking to her, just follow her pattern, if she takes 2 hours to respond. Dont respond right away.

    And dont mention anything about the relationship unless she does first.

    #62300
    kiok
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    So I got a message from her today. She said that she made her final decision to break up with me. She said she always gonna love me, but the reason she dosent want to be with me more is that because she didnt miss me in this no contact rule. πŸ™ πŸ™ πŸ™ πŸ™

    #62302
    Leogirl
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    Im so sorry to hear this.. I really though that b her talking to you it was a good sign. Wow, im sorry.

    #62304
    kiok
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    You dont have to be sorry its not your fault. Me to, she gave me so much little thigs to wake up hope in me and now this.. I’m devastated and I really don’t know what to do now

    #62305
    Leogirl
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    So what are you planning on doing?

    #62307
    kiok
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    Oh I really dont know at this moment πŸ™

    #62311
    Leogirl
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    I dont either, wish I could help

    #62312
    tony123
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    not to but in why do I always hear that song and this goes for me as well saying goodbye is never a easything but you never said you stay for ever I think of my situation right now and believe me it is hurting you just don’t know how much I can relate what you are going through just my 2 cents

    #62317
    kiok
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    The thing what is hurting me the most is that she just quit so easy after 4.5 years I was just hoping she is gonna make some effort after so long time to sve this

    #62326
    Leogirl
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    I wish I knew the answers to your pain.

    Maybe NC didn’t work because she knew youd always be there. And there was no mystery that you disapeared.

    #62330
    kiok
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    yeah, I think NC was a bad idea

    #62331
    Leogirl
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    I dont think was nessesarily a bad thing.

    But, I think the best thing now is to go full NC. No checking in type of things. Maybe block her on fb and other social media.

    Dropping off the face of the earth might be the best solution to this.

    #62337
    kiok
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    yeah your right! I was thinking to go on ship for 2-3 months and then see what its gonna happen when I come back. But Im afraid she is gonna find somebody else, but again can she move so quickly in new relationship in 2-3 moths after almost 5 years of our relationship

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