No Contact Annoymous – Share your struggles with keeping NC

@athens: youre very welcome. ya i know how that is, my ex bf is also.. a pessimist and always sees the negtives..and its so hard for him to remember the good things. he never told me what he loves about me or what made him fall in love, but he told me only the negatives things… so idk.. i also hope he will change a bit about this. and change the decision of never getting back with me again… i need to be friends with him so he sees im changing for the better and maybe in some months after being friends he will reconsider dating me…

you know zodiac signs/horoscopes are also really helpful in this kind of situations. What is ur ex by horoscope? you can read about how to get them back, what to do if you can see her in her horoscope..what not to do.. and so. i got my ex once back by knowing his horoscope sign and so… oh ya he dumped me once before but it was a misunderstanding from his side and he was ready to talk about it and forget it… cause he was wrong…

@martin: oh okay.. so not everything is lost if he isnt her bf… but it does suck to see her do plans that she used to do with you.. probably you feel scared that that guy will take her away from you for good, and all the chances to get her back.. but if it hasnt been too long since the break up, it might be just a rebound.. she will evnetually want you back around.. i hope my ex will want me back lol.. really. i wish i could understand male psychology better and to know what he is thinking..but he is ssssoooooo good at faking his true feelings/thoughts… i know him and i couldnt always tell when he fakes it or not… god . im in the mood where i wanna text him.. and see him and all that. but even more i hope he will do it first. but idk i dont believe he ever will :/

hm did u call her or she called you

oh okay. i misunderstood … well i think its best if you dont… but its up to you if u will do it or not.. if she texted you, she still remembers you’re alive if you give her a missed call you will only show her you’re still alive and waiting which she already knows..let the NC do its work and she will start to miss you.. she needed a dose of your attention(she didnt get it. so keep it that way), which is key for getting her back. and when u do give her that dose she will have what she wanted and she will back off again.

http://www.the-astrology-of-love.com/getting-back-with-your-capricorn-ex/

here is something good for zodiac signs. mine is a capricorn.. idk about you but im sure you have everything you need to know and the best things to do to get her/him back.

@martin: 🙂 yeah she does, but when she will start to think about doing all this with you before and now not.. she will start to miss you being around her..

@Aryyan

She has not contacted me since but I am quite good at snooping around so I am able to find out everything that she is up to. I am just keeping my distance and watching over. She is not aware of this.

@Athens
Well I am not sure if it is a rebound. She broke up with me mid October. She did say she wanted to rebound but she didn’t.

I am constantly having dreams about us still being together. It’s making things unnecessarily hard.. 🙁

@SodiumC
I know! I wake up most mornings feeling shit. So I try to do something new each day. The weekends are the worst.