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I see that Kevin’s website pushes the 30 day no contact rule, but at the same time I get emails from Kevin’s website to look into Relationship Rewind…….which claims the NC rule is Bullshit! So which advice is recommended…No Contact or this Relationship Rewind?
Just confused and looking for clarification.NC is only needed when you are in a Rel. Breakdown or worse (via RR terms). NC is to get your own act together and give the ex a chance to miss you.
For people whose relationship just needs a little work, RR is enough. But for bozozs like me that really screwed up, we need NC and a lot of prayers!
Yeah, in my case..NC has been imperative. I wasn’t the screw up, but NC has allowed me to see where I went wrong and even grow into a more mature person. My breakup was absolutely horrible, and NC was the best option.
SuzyL, I’ve read your story and am sorry that things have gotten to where they are for you. Would you be so kind as to read my posts? Offer your thoughts? Thx
Sorry to hijack your post duck581!No need to apologize, we are all here for the same reason and to also help each other. Thanks for the replies guys!
hi kevin…
i am writing on some site for the first time. this a strange kind of story let me tell you in brief.i went through all the details u have given for help. thank you but my case is bit different.
he is a married guy. we were very good friends for like a year. i cared for him a lot. n as he did. but suddenly his wife felt insecure n he said to me in the 4th month of our cool friendship that v cant continue our friendship. i understood him completely n moved aside. i felt bad but i thought his family is important. then he contacted me back after a week. i asked now what he said i talked to my wife she has no issue that we are working together on a project she just want us to work no friendship. i minded that but i worked n as we had good understanding we became friends again. i knew that he is hiding this all from his wife. but there was a pure relation of friendship between us so i continued. when this project ended he seemed so upset like he was confuse what to do. finally we sat n discussed that we know we are pure for each other but if the society doesn’t accepts our relation we have to end it. after 40 days he contacted me back. i was so hurt through all this but i never showed him. he said i know u like me. may be its my fault n bla lba… i simply said i have no issues this friendship is over n u should focus on Ur family. this is my advise as an honest friend. but i know he is involve i felt that many times. n i like him too. may b in revenge or what i want him to accept that he was into me. after this 40 days call now a week has passed.he didn’t contact me. in the last call it was happy bye. but i feel something somewhere is missing. plz help me n guide me and give me your point of view. thank you
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