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My ex is sending me texts and still talking to me as a friend. He is being kind and it is very hard to just disappear. My feelings are getting the best of me and telling me to be kind! I’m not texting back immediately or being very open. In my last thread I meantiines that we go to the same school and have a class where we sit very close to each other. (Look through the threads and respond to that too please!! It gives you the whole story!!!) I want him back more than anything. Is there a way I can apply the no contact rule and not be completely silent and conservative? I’m already self loving and I understand the situation. I CAN live without him, I just don’t want to! I want to spend my life with him! Please give me advise on this crazy situation.
Its good that you have the confidence that you can live without him but you want him back. I guess you have a good chance on getting him back with acting cool and limited contacts, letting him miss you. Maybe he wants to have the excitement that you had before. You should focus on yourself, keeping you busy with the activities you like, somethings interesting maybe
Me and my ex tried to be friends and we ended up becoming too friendly, to the point where it became a grey zone. Sometimes we acted like we were still dating, to the point where friends joked about us being back together, but since she has a new bf we were just friends. In my experience if you are not happy being friends then don’t be and go limited or no contact. There is a difference between being friends and being friendly. Being friendly is “Oh he said hi to me in passing, I should be polite and say hi back” while friends is “Oh lets text frequently and hang out outside of class”. To me it sounds like you are doing fine though honestly, as far as what you have said you are not talking too much and have done the work to improve yourself.
@atedeschi93 do you think I’m on the right track to getting him back?
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