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I haven’t said anything to my parents yet lol. And he’s still asleep. Right now I’m laying in my bed with my 4 month old nephew, he’s also asleep š
@confused__Girl
Was your ex with someone else? And what work did you do?
Cuz right now i feel hopeless to get my ex back and i really want her back!
I used NC to work on myself, I was depressed before we broke up (my grandpa died) and I got worse and worse after we broke up. I hated the person I was for the last 3 months. I upset my best friend and I unintentionally drove my boyfriend away. During NC, I became more confident and the person I used to be, the persons ex loved so very much.
And yes he did, but it was a rebound. It lasted about 2 or 3 weeks and he would snapchat me everyday and his actions said he still loved me and cared. The other night he told me he missed me and last night he said “so shush about your second chance or whatever…lol”. This isn’t intended to be mean. I think he just said it because he knew I was going to (jokes on him, I didn’t plan on it :p lol) but him saying that made me assume that it’s finally happening. What all has your ex done so far and any thing lately?
@confused girl
We broke up almost 3 months ago, she ended it. 2-3 weeks after she started seeing her bestfriend which she told me never to woryy about. Now she is still with him and apparently he is not her type and she is not happy with him. Her dad is very sick and her grand grandmother is about to die and she is very close of both of them.
I started texting her 2 weeks ago and she is positive to my texts some times she is cold.
I tried setting something up with her today, she accepted twice (she forgot the first time) and told me yesterday she couldnt because she was seeing her father today.
She has never mentioned her bew bf to me and had breakfast with my mom yesterday they also talk from time to time!
Not sure if thats good, i think it is.
Ive been working on myself
– new haircut
– new clothes
– not a reck
– changed my negative features she dumped me forSo ya i did my stuff but she is very stubborn and hard to approach.
Also her sister says that i was the best for her and that she made a mistake, her whole family really loved me and im the only one her dad appreciated!
@samuel I know what she’s going through about the family thing. It’s painful. The last time I saw my grandpa, he couldn’t speak or remember who my mom was. Saying our last goodbye was so painful. He was in the hospital for a month. My boyfriend (now ex, you’ve seen what I’ve posted lol) was there for me when it happened, he was there for me through it all.
I’ve also changed the negative things that caused the break up, and I gained confidence. We’re seeing each other tomorrow and I’m nervous about it. My gut says something good will happen.
Have you looked at the articles on this site?
@confused girl
Yes every single one, but they are to broad to help me out since my ex is very stuborn and hard to read.
Some say i have a chance i like to think so too but i dont know.
She is in a rebound relationship and seems to prove herself that he is the one and fighting for this to work!
I dont know what to do to get her on a date with me because i know that if we are alone together she will see what she misses and we will for sure kiss and snuggle together but i thinks she has the same idea and its why its hard to get to see her she is a loyal girl and dosent want to cheat on her bf
She still not reply anything? Or being hot and cold with u?
Well i texted her today asking about her dad she said he isnt doing so good he is tired and sad ao i told her to talk about the dog he once owned and he loved so much.
She talked to him and said he was okay now and she said “goodnight sam:)” at 9pm wtf she never goes to bed so early
Sorry to interupt, but @aryyan could you look at my lastest post I made? I need advice
Perhaps she was very tired with everything goes wrong or not in good condition. It can change her sleep too
Will do dear š
Hi, I posted this on the boards, but have not got any advise/ replies. My situation is getting worse day by day – so i need advise as soon as possible.
please help urgently.
The whole story in shortā¦
We were best friends for 12 yearsā¦
got in a relationship 2 years backā¦
got engaged in Septemberā¦
he broke up in October.
I love him a lot and want him to get back in the relationship.
The current situation:
We both work in the same office. we have to talk to each other. there were times when our conversations drifted to discussing the breakup. now we tend to avoid, still it does happen. he comes to me to talk, ask āhow am i doing?ā, advises me to move on, and also says ā ālets just be friendsā.
He cannot see me sad.
he cares for me.
and he also is attracted to me and tries to get close to me when no one is around.
I need advice to turn this situation around to get him back to me.Why u guys broke up may i ask?
@aryyan
we broke up ā reasons given by him:
(he feels..)
that i do not love him, that he was not priority for me, he felt that i insulted him in front of his family.
All of this is not the whole truth.
We had disagreements, fights like all couples do. It was regarding managing the wedding ā he felt that I should not do it and my parents should. My family can not do it, so I had to do the managing and hence the disagreements and the fights.
I kept a 10 day NC post break-up, he took that in the wrong sense. He felt that I was least bothered and that I did not love him!
Now, we are in the same office, sitting next to each otherā¦and I am scared of talking to himā¦fearing one more misunderstanding!
I love him and I want him backā¦
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