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Hello,
About 3 months ago my ex broke up with me. We had a relationship for almost 4 years. She broke up with me because she didn’t feel attracted to me anymore. I felt terrible and tried to convince her that we shouldn’t break up. After a week I decided that begging and pleeding was not going to help me.
I searched on the internet for some help and not much later I decided to use NC. She freaked out and was not happy with me using NC. But after 2 weeks of NC she started dating someone else. It was one of her (guy) friends. In the past she told me she would never be attracted to him.
At that time I started to make some good changes for myself. I was exercizing a lot and was starting to be less insecure and jealous. After a month NC I started contacting her again. She reacted very cold one moment and very hot another moment.
Then about a week or 2 ago she pushed to see me. She wanted to bring my stuff back. When she gave me my stuff back it was all garbage. She brought some sweathers which only one fits me and some other (broken) stuff. Later that night she suddenly likes my new facebook profile picture.
At the moment she is on a holiday with her boyfriend and some of her friends. My question is the following:
What should I do next? + What does that bringing me old stuff back means?
Gr,
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She is probably trying to move on. It’s up to you whether you want to keep trying, but try not to show signs of neediness. She seems to be doing well with her new relationship, but that’s nothing compared to the 4 years you two have together. If you want her back, you’ll need to find a way to attract her.
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