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Well I don’t really know we’re too begin but I’ll give Yous an iNsight to the relatship! I started speaking to her in March 2015, at the time I was dating another girl tho it wasn’t serious! She would txt me all day every day, FaceTime me constantly we would have a good laugh, we eventually hit things off by April and became really close, untill we eventually started liking eachother, by August we decided we would get into a relationship with eachother! Everything went well, we would meet up twice a week, have fun, chill watch films cuddle everything was going great! I spoilt get rotten and treated her the way a girl should be treated. But recently I noticed a change, like she would always be excited too see me, but I never got that feeling no more, she started letting me down and never seen me as much she spent more time with her friends, tho we still talked flat out and still had a laugh, this made me insecure and I started thinking things and saying things I didn’t mean, we silly arguments but we let them blew over and forgot about them! Sometimes it was almost like they never happend. I think I let my insecurities get the better of me and I think I let her down a bucket load with what I said too her. But I’ll cut the whole relatship crap out now and get too the point! We had plans for her to come over the day after Halloween for a we hangover day, you know films and food! Everyone loves a good spooning away when there hungover! She rang me and we wer talking about her night and I said are you coming over and she just said no she cba! And I got a bit angry and said to her you only come and see me these days when it suits you most you never put in an effort no more! And we got into a heated but short argument! She told me that it was over and she never wanted to speak to me again! I don’t get how she could just throw everything we had away over a silly comment I didn’t even mean! I said it through anger and she knows I did, I can’t get my head around how she can go from being the perfect girl speaking every day to blanking me out like a click of a finger! She blocked me on Facebook and Instagram and my phone number! We’ll probably because I did the stupid thing that most men do and bombarded her with txts saying I’m sorry and I love her!
I think I made a bit of a fool of myself and made myself look like a desperate we boy! But i do love this girl, she’s the only thing I care about most, and she was the reason I was so happy! I got a reply out of her and I just asked her straight up do you really not wana be with me no more and she just said no now stop texting me and leave me be I’m blocking your number. after that I have not texted her. I just can’t get my head around how she can just turn like this after how close we where! But for some reason I think she is serious about it! I just don’t know what to do! Should I leave her be and let her move on? Or should I just leave her be for a few weeks then text her! I just need to know what would be the best way to get her back, it that is even possible 🙁
Bluntly…
Leave her alone. Dude, you created some toxic stuff. Leave her alone for a few months.
She blocked you. That says enough.
You should work on yourself. You need to figure out why you’re so insecure, immature and say harsh things. Words really hurt people. And you two weren’t together that long.
Good luck
Everything is possible, the impossible just takes longer.
However, I have to agree with LAbound, leave her alone and let the air clear. There is way too much negativity and forcing anything will break it. Over the course of the next weeks/months you have to show her and yourself (which is more important) that you have matured and gained a level of emotional intelligence where you can approach all things thrown at you calmly and level headed. A change of that magnitude will not go unnoticed but it will require a lot of effort and self control.
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