Boards Reconciliation met up with my ex, what do i do now??

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  • #44550
    amy111
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    It won’t seem desperate me doing this will it?

    #44551
    amy111
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    I guess I’m also a bit gutted he hasn’t texted or messaged me since πŸ™ is that normal? It was only Monday I guess-but still :'(

    #44557
    Thargus
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    haha xD

    shes asked me if i could go take application forms to job locations with her and then go and get some lunch with her that day, then we just started singing song lyrics once more as i made a reference joke type of thing towards one. so we just text lyrics back and forth. hmmm lol

    #44558
    Thargus
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    i dont think i will have an answer yet, being honest i think she likes my company and wants a nice time out!

    #44561
    amy111
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    oooh but still! its looking promising! πŸ™‚

    i wish i was on texting terms with mine! πŸ™

    #44566
    Thargus
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    and no of course it isnt desperate amy honestly, your doing better than any of us here at the moment! give me a sec and ill be able to talk properly πŸ™‚

    #44570
    amy111
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    okay πŸ™‚ no way! i think you and kaila are doing amazingly!

    #44603
    amy111
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    Okay, so he opened the snap!-and never replied πŸ™

    I had such a crapoy nights sleep last night thinking about it all. All I want to do now is see and speak to him, and find out what this “serious talk” he wanted was going to be about πŸ™ I wish with all my heart it would be that he regrets his decision and wants me back, but I think if it was that he would have done it long ago…
    I think tbh it will be a “sorry I dumped you” talk :/ ahhhh I’m feeling pretty low ATM :'(

    #44719
    amy111
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    Still no contact from him πŸ™

    #44729
    Thargus
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    sorry i didn’t get back so soon πŸ™ my internet died dang it!

    want me to be honest about how i feel as well so your not the only one? i haven’t had much sleep myself for a while. or a proper nights anyway. and that is pretty normal if you think about it, so dont worry about that. i GRANTEE you that he is also thinking the exact same as you are. he was probably hoping you would bring up the conversation. you are both expecting it to happen and why wouldn’t you?
    there is no thinking about would he have done it or IF he would have long ago because you have to think logically. hes going to when the moment is right and so are you. you both met up for the first time in a while and it was a good thing the conversation didnt happen. there was no pressure. but only enjoyment. and that is a good thing. you will slowly but frequently talk more and meet up more now and the moment will arise πŸ™‚ it has to. regardless of when. and it will. do not worry πŸ™‚

    ya did good girl.

    #44730
    Thargus
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    i dont forget one vital thing, patience is everything. and lots of it πŸ™‚

    #44733
    amy111
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    eeeek thanks Thargus – I hope so!

    I havent been able to go to the gym for a few days because of deadlines and I think the stress is building up gradually!

    Its his sisters birthday next friday, and she’s invited us all out for drinks, so I guess I will see him next then!

    Yeah, it sucks doesnt it πŸ™

    #44740
    Thargus
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    ah that’s good! don’t bring anything up to him and sew how it goes at that party πŸ™‚ and take it easy and enjoy yourself the most. if anything, enjoy YOURSELVES πŸ™‚

    my ex is still texting lyrics today, she wants o go drop some cv’s off to job places and then go get a coffee before she goes to work at 3:30.

    im super scared becuase im unsure if shes going to give me an answer or not tomorrow, its weird..

    #44754
    amy111
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    Nooo I’m sure it’ll be great! Otherwise she wouldn’t be leading yo on with random lyrics! πŸ™‚

    Yeah! I don’t know whether or not to text him or not :S

    #44755
    amy111
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    When we met up he said something about a message I had sent last week saying I would send him a pic of the car I want and that I never did…maybe I should? Ahh I don’t know! Everyone is telling me not to :/

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