met up with my ex, what do i do now??

reading through it all as we speak 🙂 im laying in bed looking on my phone haha, i will reply asap with a complete opinion @kaila

so after her not replying for a few days to my question, i went to the gym as usual and attended a boxing class. nothing out of the ordinary for me! but can you guess who was there..? She was. with her sister and mother too. it was a LITTLE awkward at first to see it, and i had to look twice to make sure it was her.. i was so shocked to see her there.
in fact, i was happy to see her there. her sister got called up to the personal trainer to have a 1v1, but then She was left on her own, so i went over and got some pads and we trained together. in fact we trained together through it all. the awkwardness went, we laughed a ton. had so much fun. she even beat me up. and tried to take a shot at me sneakily whenever she got the chance. her sister also tried lol but my ex and i were very motivating towards each other, it was great. we talked for a bit and her sister and mother walked off now and again and always peering back to look at us talking for some reason..? but.. it was just so.. nice. so nice being able to be like that with her, it was great you know. it was slightly flirty too. but at the end we were talking more, and just as we were all about to go i went to the changing rooms and i heard my name being called. she called me back and spoke to me just like this. imagine this in your heads if you can lol “Um.. do you um.. wait i cant that day.. um.. shall we go for that coffee and spend the day out on friday after i finish work?”
of course i said yes! she was quite hesitant and nervous to even ask, but she knew she had to because she left the text unanswered when i asked her about it.
this just proves to me she was very nervous about it. so on friday, i am picking her up from work and we are going for coffee or some place and just going out for the day to to try and work things out it seems and to be honest with one another!

This whole scenario was weird though i have to say.. i was really on the verge of just giving up and writing a letter to say how i felt. then that happened. she NEVER goes to the gym. ever. shes trying to improve herself though and encourage herself and things, so her sister obviously dragged her along but still.. that was very coincidental. her sister would know i would be there.. but my ex wouldn’t i dont think!

what do you all think?

trust me i have a huge lack of confidence lol im trying to get myself to increase it. and of course ill keep replying to it!

i just rang her as well because she put on facebook something about her job, i messaged her and she was very upset, i seemed to calm her down and cheer her up a bit and also help her make a very important decision about the job, i hope i did the right thing.. i don’t know but i just hope i didnt make myself too available if that made any sense?

also i have to ask, do you think i should of rang her? or am i just over thinking that now?

I dont think so, he is bound to know it may be like that and very awkward at the moment so just remember that! Dont jump to the conclusion of the worst!

And okay, I guess I started overthinking AFTER the phonecall. She did say thanks for ringing her though and that it was nice. I need to stop overthinking completely but its difficult!