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I’m gonna ask her today at some point, probably soon knowing she is home now and off for the weekend. Get it sorted
last time i was with him (tuesday of last week) we scheduled a meet up for tomorrow. yesterday i thought he was in class and texted asking if there were news for tomorrow and if he had something that is mine in his house. when i got home i realized he actually wasnt in class and when he is free he takes ages to answer back. so yea basically still no answer. messaged on fb he was online. nothing. called, no answer. i need to know. im here in limbo worried and feeling weak he doesnt even care anymore and i want to know what to prepare for tomorrow argh
so i dont know how to adivse you. i know i am crazy right now
@kaila this is how i feel at the moment, she still hasn’t replied to my text yet she has been on Facebook complaining about a bus journey so she HAS been on her phone. it doesn’t take a few minutes to just reply, i don’t understand what is so hard? is she just that nervous? after she told me all these things and that she agreed to go for coffee to talk about us and sort it out, you would think she would be eager! but i don’t know..
oh guys im feeling a bit mad too!!
I got tinder as a joke (hardy flippin haha) and guess who popped up on it! Only my ex!!
I decided to swipe left, and have turned it off now so that he can’t see me. It was funny though – all his photos are either of him topless in a swimming pool or in vests that show off his chest/arms hahahahhaha!!!
but still, i feel really bummed out about it 🙁 i only got it as a joke to please my friends – and he’s got it as a serious thing! ugh. I did tell his sister my “friend” saw him on tinder, so im hoping she’ll tell him that (as i always joked that tinder was when you got really depserate hehehehehe :P)
However, Im going to contact him tomorrow to say happy easter anyway…i think? im not sure anymore whether to or not! I THINK I should though…just to show how well im doing 😛
Thargus – Did she ever get back to you?
Kaila – dont talk to him anymore. you’ve made the move to, now its his turn. if you do anymore it might come across as desperate and put him right off.
xxxx
Amy! How are you been some time we talked. So you haven’t still contacted him even once?
Thargus, yes it is!!! Don’t give up you are so close!
There are news, can you guys go to my thread and tell me what you think? https://ebpforums.com/boards/topic/he-says-he-would-like-to-get-back-but/page/13/
hey kaila!
Nope not once – its been 2 months exactly today!! I’m feeling pretty proud of myself 🙂 and hoping its been long enough that he misses me now/realises what life is like without me now!
I miss him like CRAZY still though 🙁 that can’t be normal! So Im going to contact him tomorrow finally to say happy easter and I hope he’s well e.t.c…then will see what happens i guess eeeeek!
yes I’ll read through yours now 🙂
Good! I am very proud too! I am feeling positive about you. Do that! You have a good reason to. You are wishing him happy easter its not like you are needy and text him out of the blue 🙂
Yeah! it did shock me a bit about finding him on tinder but it doesnt suprise me as the reason he broke up with me was to ‘be single’…..
i guess tinder is the epitome of being single haha!!
Im just reading through all the comments on your post kaila, sorry its taking so long! 😛
Aww amy thank you! :’) i was actually just asking about this last situation but if you want to read to get a better sense I apreciate it! Yes I read that. Being single is most of the times an ilusion of a great thing. How old is he?
21 – which isn’t suprising for a boy that age to think like that I guess! but yeah, ‘grass is greener on the other side’ syndrome set in, so i may as well let him have a taste of it (and hopefully in the meantime he’ll realise how much he misses me :P)
i have made her an Easter card, but its just knowing she HAS seen my text, shes off for two days, and its been since last Thursday and she hasn’t even contacted me or returned a text about it once. i thought this was it.. but now im not so sure and because of this ive been very in the dumps today. it doesn’t help other people are getting angry including my mother and the fact she wont reply to it. i don’t want people to be mad or get involved and im sick of people telling me to just move on.. especially after she told me what she has. i cant move on from that..
and @amy111 to me it sounds like hes very desperate lol to go onto tinder especially.. goodness. your definitely in control here! DEFINITELY contact him at this point. if he is desperate he will be like “Woah..” when you contact him 🙂
@Kaila of course ill look through also, we all give each other the time here so why not!Thank you Thargus.
Honestly the best sometimes is to pretend nothing is wrong or that you dont care anymore so no one will bother you and interfere. I understand you… but its still saturday. she might say something
Amy yes he is very young still. Definitely. Its good you are so confident 🙂 i am not like that at all. anyway tinder its just casual right. he is not gonna find the love of his life there
its just more annoying than it should be since what ruined it all in the first place was interference. i wish it was just us in our own bubble.
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