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i will read it now! im so sorry i missed this part.
also if i were you it might be an opportunity to comfort him in this time. it would also break some ice!
Noooo that’s fine don’t worry!
That’s what I was thinking-Ita nerve racking, even now when a picture of him pops up on Facebook my heart stops for a brief moment! 🙁
could you copy and paste it back to this point? i dont know if im just being stupid or blind and i cant find it lol i am sorry!
yeah course ill copy and paste it! though I now dont think its that important..but I guess i just want an opinion on wheter its the right time to contact or not :/
i was round at his sisters , and she told me he had left his email on her laptop, and when he gets messages on facebook, they come through to his email…and his sister said she had a sneaky peek.
Apparently, his friend had said to him “did you know amy had met up with your sister?! have you guys made up?”
obviously my ex had replied, and his friend had replied back saying “nah its cool forget about it. You down about the lack of girls?”
Its SOOOOOOO annoying that she couldnt see what he had wrote!! But now I dont know what to make of this!! I like the fact it said “lack of girls” though!!
but now what? His sister said nothing else had come through.
Ive just been on facebook now though, and pictures of him have popped up on his facebook from a get together he had the other night 🙁 Lots of drinking, smiling….and a jacuzzi 🙁 🙁 I thought I was a little bit over him but i dont think i am now. There were no pictures of him with girls but I still got upset – and it sucks. 7 weeks on, and I still miss him and love him as much as I used to 🙁 gahhh its so annoying 🙁 and the fact that he doesnt look as if he cares at all! :/
my opinion on this? well ill give you my opinion. straight off, i think hes missing you. dropping the conversation with his friend just like that means hes avoiding it. why else would he? simply because he still thinks about you. if he didn’t, he would talk about it like it was nothing. keep that in mind 🙂
and understand, you will never truly be over him knowing how you feel, and especially when there are even small signals from him. it sounds like hes just having a good time as normal, and definitely he does care. how do i know this you ask? let me tell you.
having a picture taken among your friends, your not going to look down on purpose. hes not trying to forget things, or maybe he is, but understand the only reason hes trying to forget things is because feelings are still there.
i get EXACTLY the same from my ex, she has photos taken, and she seems fine. when i know she is not. and especially after our conversation last thursday night, i know there is hope. im still waiting for her to make the arrangement to go get coffee and sort things out, ive tried to sit back and just wait but its hard trying to not text her and find out when. but i must not.
Amy you will be alright. it has been some time and the fact that his friend has asked about you and him just means he has been talking about you both to people!
chin up 🙂
and believe me when i say this, i feel EXACTLY the same way, i may sound better and confident but its bloody hard. i still love her with everything and just passively think about her all the time.
ahhh thanks thargus 🙂 its so nice speaking to people who are in the same position!
how long ago was it since you saw her again? was it thursday?
maybe wait until tomorrow evening and ask her casually if plans are still on? 🙂of course! any time amy. it makes everything feel much better see. and yeah it was last thursday
Yeah I would maybe leave it another couple of days and then send a message and ask 🙂 nice and cool!
hmmm then yeah, I would say maybe contact tomorrow and just ask casually “still on for coffee? :)”
Shes off Saturday and Sunday I am told by her sister, but because of the Easter holidays here she doesn’t need to go to after school club for work so shes off all afternoon /evening from about 1:30/2pm. So she does have a lot of time to be able to!
shes just text me during work telling me about the person shes working with is not so nice. more to the point, shes texting me randomly.
im not gonna message her and ask, we’ve been texting most of the night since shes been working and simply becuase i have just thought about this. shes in work till 12 am, has to be up at 5am for work in the morning once more, finishes at 2pm and she will most likely sleep. thursday again she has to be up at 5am, then friday, and saturday and sunday she has off. ill wait for her call i think, i dont wanna pester her when shes super tired to ask a question like that. she knows its going to happen anyway and will probably do it on the weekend. if she doesnt by saturday evening then i will text her then asking about sunday 🙂
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