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@annakis I am feeling much better than I did Friday!
He emailed me at work today, I was going to ignore it but took a different route. I didn’t reoly for ages. Eventually I replied mirroring him. Same tone, same content. He started more conversation so I replied a bit more. Literally just mirrored him. It ended up being a very pleasant conversation! I was funny and light and was just normal and so was he. I then decided to cut the conversation off and said bye. He then replied with something else continuing the conversation and I didn’t reply. So I feel good for that!
How are you doing?Hey well done! Sounds like you handled that perfectly! 🙂 Might have to try your mirroring trick if I end up talking to my ex!
As for me, no reply of any kind to my letter, kinda assuming that I’m not gonna get one. I’m thinking about what my next step should be but I’m stressing and worrying about it less and less every day. I think I’m making progress in moving on 🙂
Handled it much better than Friday! Lol. Felt good to cut the convo off and be a bit more in control with it! Hopefully it’s got into his head a little bit.
How long has it been since she would have received the letter? And how long nc?
Well before I sent the letter I’d been in NC a month, and it’s been almost two weeks since she would have gotten the letter I think…
I think give it a little more time. I know we must get sick of hearing that, but it really is the best thing. She may not be sure how to respond to it just yet and is just pushing it to one side for the moment. It’s good that you are not stressing about it, best thing to do
Yeah perhaps you’re right… It doesn’t help that she’s with another guy either really, I think time is the only answer!
Haha thank you! I’m glad that’s how I come across because I don’t feel very controlled 😛
Haha you are. You haven’t contacted her apart from the letter! That’s really controlled!
@malinda I listened to Cher in the car this morning on the way to work.. That “do you believe in life after love” one.. Look up the words, it’s amazing! I was singing at the top of my voice! Haha..
@annakis you are doing so well controlling yourself! Well done!! 😀 yea give yourself a bit more time but also the fact that your thinking about it and stressing about it less is a great sign! Your moving on, which is all part of the process.. I feel im getting there too! I thought I’d have heard from him today when he got back but i should have known better really..
@KD1988 Wow! sounds like you handled that perfectly! 🙂 x@pineappleblue I love that Cher song haha. Yes handled it as well as I could!! X
Aw thanks for the support guys 🙂 But what do you think I should do once I’m feeling ready or enough time has passed or whatever? Or should I be waiting for her to make contact? What do you think? 🙂
@annakis I think it depends how you feel once you get to that point you know? You may want to reach out to her or you may not!
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