Long distance reconciliation

Hey
My ex and I broke up about 2.5 weeks ago. We have lived together a short while before she moved to another state to be back with her kid. We dated about a year and 3 months. She was more emotionally evolved in the relationship at the beginning. She has told me she loved me at 3 months and through the year she has always wanted to take things to the next level. I told her that in good time I would feel the same because I didn’t wanna just jump into anything super fast that we could take things slow. But after the first year I came around to really loving the girl and began to realize that I wanted to spend my life with her. Wanting her to move in with me to another state and move her kid in. Which was always her plan and idea. And I really thought it though and wanted the same. But as I came around to find myself wanting it all with her she began to tell me that she doesn’t rly know what she wants in life and that she doesn’t wanna move in with me. She says that she put all the effort in the beginning and that she felt I wasn’t doing the same but I did tell her I wanted to take things slow. We broke up and 3 days later I found out she slept with someone which she confirmed. She cried to her best friend saying that she made a huge mistake. I kno she loves me but one day she wants to be with me then the next it’s completely different. After everything happened I was mad and did say some mean things but after it all I ended up telling her I could forgive her and that I still wanted her to move in. We called the next couple of days trying to figure it out then I drunkenly texted her that I wanted nothing to do with her because she did that. Next day I apologized and told her I wanted to be friends. She liked that. I did text her 2 days of texts (probably around 10) of how much I wanted her in my life and how much I loved her. Then the next day I told her we weren’t gonna be friends and that I’m goin to give her all the time and space she needs and I was goin to delete her number and delete her out of my life. My question is,is this relationship to far gone to rekindle anything even though we live in different states.. I have been on no contact for a couple days but every other time we have broken up she calls or texts within a week. I don’t kno what to do and I’m rly confused on her change of mind within a couple months. I really do wanna still be with her but I need advice on wether she still loves me even tho the change of mind and if were going to ever get back. I’m 27 she’s 23. Thx