If she lost "attraction"?

How long were you two together?

Over a period of time, partners get lazy. They start burping and farting in front of each other, they don’t groom themselves daily, they stop dressing nice, their bodies go to shit..and then there’s the emotional laziness. They stop connecting. After a while, the attraction goes away. It can come back, but with you stepping back away from the situation and taking the time and effort to realize where you could improve.

Many people think basic love is all that’s needed. Looks aren’t everything, and personality and emotional connection can make up for a lot of what looks can’t cover. However, it is always important to be your “attractive best” as often as possible. It keeps up that sexual desire, and motivates your partner to improve in the areas where they lack as well.

most people don’t understand that.. they think if you have basic love, it should be enough to make things last forever. Love at first sight is bogus. It’s attraction at first sight. It’s what made them interested in the first place. Second, they speak to you.. they get to know your personality a bit. Third, comes intimacy. All three of these things keep a relationship. Of course, there’s way more to each of these 3 things, but that’s the basics.