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I think the message he sent was just regular 🙂 Definitely not bad and it’s great that he is respecting your wishes. You don’t need to respond to the text, just continue no contact now 🙂
thanks cassie. ugh this is so hard. I miss him so much and just want to see him and be with him. I may see him tomorrow. this is so hard on me. do you think that he would ever come back? realistically? ugh I hate this so much. 🙁 I miss him. 🙁
ok so he texted me saying: hi how are the kids. so im gonna wait for a while before answering him, so he doesnt think every time he texts or calls im gonna answer. im just gonna say hi, yes, and thanks. its all im texting him and if it wasnt about them I wouldnt even be texting him. also I logged on to my fathers facebook. I deleted mines a long time ago, he rearly ever goes on to write anything on and bam his post pops up right in front of me. ugh. that hurt but Im just ignoring it. ugh the post wasnt bad but unexpected. he just wrote everyone dont forget about the blood moon tonight. about 11 hrs ago. ugh I miss him so much and want him back. ugh 🙁 this sucks.
Don’t worry about what he does on social media, it wont change anything so if it makes you feel bad to see him write something, dont check it again! Yes, in the text just be nice, casual and to the point like “Hi, kids are good 🙂 ”
I know it tough but just one day at a time!!yeah I dont I actually went on to check something out and came across that. He text me back thanks for letting him know. I didnt text back. he then called and left a voice mail. the voice mail was him saying hi my name that he wanted to talk to my oldest. my oldest mis behaves so much and I guess she talks to him and not me. ( I guess I have a big problem in my hands.) anyways I let her call him and she started talking really bad and low about me. ( she literally made me cry telling him she hates me and a bunch of mean things) then she kept walking away from me with the phone. I even heard her say to him I know and she needs to understand that. (for some reason I keep thinking she was saying I need to understand that hes not gonna get back with me but im not sure what it was about.) (so I shouldnt stress right?) also he keeps calling me by my name and I feel like its a bad thing because to me it means that he isnt getting back with me. Im so stressed and depressed. ugh, I wanna cry. 🙁 anyone? thanks
Hey if you stay at home of course you will miss him badly all day, do you. Want to be more attractive ? Such as have a job and seems busy?
There is not much to do about it. Just keep doing the no contact right now and focus on yourself and your children 🙂
actually I applied for a few jobs that never called me, but some one told me about this one job and I went this morning for a try. thing being I notice my kids schools schedules interfere with any job. this really sucks. but im gonna try to see if I can do this job. it’ll bring me in money that I need and it’ll keep me busy. Im gonna keep losing weight for me, for my health to look better. Im gonna continue to try to better myself but its hard. I keep hearing Im young, theres others,ect. things I dont want to hear but are true. I guess he never appreciated me and took me for granted. I’m just gonna have to see this as over, most likely it is. im only fooling myself here. I will continue no contact for me. hopefully it helps but unfortunately I still have to have contact with him even though I dont want to. if he does come back I’ll be the happiest person on earth if not something has to give. but I hope he comes back but I highly doubt it. it seems hes sure of what he wants. he seems happy and is probably happy talking to those sluts. Im so hurt Idk what to do anymore. this is so hard. I hate this. 🙁
I hope the job situation works out for you!! 🙂 It will for sure attract him to you.. I highly doubt that he is happy talking to those other women, soooo dont worry too much about them.. they’re just rebounds and mean nothing to him. I really hope that the no contact works out for the best!
ugh unfortunately is all I can do isnt it cassie. I hate this pain. 🙁 do you think he’ll come back? I highly doubt it. 🙁
thanks cassie you always seem to give me hope when Im feeling down. I hope it does work out for me. 🙂 no matter what its a good thing, even if it doesnt attract him to me. :-/ I’ll keep you posted as to the job situation. most likely I’ll see him tomorrow, not that I want to. I guess hes over talking to me about “the important” things he needed to tell me. 🙁 ugh.
yes they are cassie. ugh 🙁 Im so down and depressed. I hope every things going well with you though. 🙂
@vanessa9 I dont understand what you mean by your question?
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