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and to continue= I’ve thought things trough. I dont want her back for the sex. Or for the sake of not being alone. I want her back because I like her, I like what she is and how she behaves
and no not 2 weeks of no contact 2 weeks of really limited contact.
@ipredator – Not all women try to find a new man immediately for sex. She might have feelings of abandonment if you were withholding appreciation and affection. I’m glad you have more insight into the problem and hopefully you two will be able to work things out. But be sure to have a serious talk about how to make each other happy. Yes, try to start building your relationship back up again as friends whenever you feel ready. Hopefully she will want to do this too:)
Good luck.I started it yesterday. Yesterday we went for an coffee and decided to go bowling after it, we were having fun and she was laughing almost the whole time, Today I went to her place to help her decorate and assemble stuff and she was totally different. A lot more reserved in a way, and a lot colder. Is this normal? Is she just trying to figure out what she should feel? 😀
@ipredator – Glad you had a good time together when you had coffee and went bowling. Today maybe when you were helping her at her apartment, it reminded her of when you were living together and how sad she was towards the end. Anyway, maybe you should take her out to have fun instead of going to her apartment or yours. Have fun dating like when you first met to attract her feelings again. Don’t ask her how she’s feeling as this will put too much pressure on her and it’s too soon after the breakup. Just be a great date and start out again slowly.
Sounds good so far:) Good luck..
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