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She left me 2 years ago, got a new boyfriend. After 2 months she came back. I took her back. Then our relationship became strained about 10 months ago which led her to leave me in september. She started dating this other guy just weeks after. A month and half later I contacted her. We decided to work things out. That we loved each other. She kept saying how she loved me and wanted to try again. Then just 3 weeks later she decides to break up again. I see her about 2 weeks later holding hands with a new guy. Now it’s been 2 months. They are in a relationship. We are neighbors so I saw him with her family. I’m blocked on facebook and she has shown no signs of wanting to contact. I give up. I’ve lost her. I’m crushed. I miss her.
Im sorry you are going through that. The best thing you can do is move on. Become a happier and stronger person. Live your life to the fullest. Down the road you will attract someone, if not your ex.
Maybe things just werent changing in a way that wants to make her stay. But you shouldn’t be waiting for her. You are being her safety net. Thats not fair to you.
I just loved her so much. She was my love. We were together for 4 years. I just don’t understand how she can move on so easily and find a new boyfriend in less than 2 months.
Aw I no how u fe my ex bf moved on quick and now lives with his new girl and I cry most days don’t no what gonna do with out him and seeing tham togeva kills me so I feel for u I think I deffo lost my ex…your ex sounds so confused but also every selfish everytime u spilt she moved on and not cared bout your feeling it’s obv u love her but u just done Somthing write for her keep coming back? But it’s been so many times have u not asked your self why u keep breaking up maybe she not the one ? It’s really hard ain’t it
My breakup wasnt clearly defined when my ex slept with someone else. So I get it. But I let that go. Mainly because she is emotionally immature and was going through as much shit as I did. Not making excuses for her but who am I to hold a grudge when humans have complex emotions. She has sincerely apologized plenty of times so that helps.
Something is drawing your ex back but not getting her to stick. And it may be that your relationship has run its course. It seems like she has growing to do and you should find happiness in the now.
I have never met anyone who went thru a break up and did not thing about their ex, I have a friend whose ex moved on pretty quick on to a new relationship and she kept wondering how could he have forgotten about her so quickly. He didn’t he was just into the new girl so he was not dealing with the loss of the relationship, but a few months later he started going thru the emotions and wanting my friend back, but by then my friend had moved on and wanted nothing to do with him.
Sometimes losing hope is the best, because then you can just start rebuilding.
start being kind to yourself since she wasn’t, start planning a new life. In time the pain will go away and you will be okay.@marie I like your post it made me really think…I hope what you say is true as I’m not handling my situation well at all…but I no I just got to give up hope..just hard as we have a kid togeva and he moved on and living with someone else somedays he says it’s to late and somedays he says never say never that still got love for me…but longer with this girl closer he will get but I hate thought he moved on and I’m gonan have see tham togeva 🙁
Wow….just visited her boyfriends fb..stupid I know. But his banner is a collage of pics of him and her. It’s not even been 2 months and they have vacation pictures. Pictures kissing and having fun. I’m crushed and angry at the same time. I just want to write and curse her out for lying the me about her love for all these years because if she loved me she wouldn’t have been able to move on so quickly.
Anger is actually a healthy and helpful emotion in these situations… it helps us start moving on.
This seems to be moving on very quickly and most relationships that start off that intense don’t usually last.
Don’t do anything, let yourself feel those emotions, but don’t make contact, the relief you will feel will be short-lived and the other person usually has no sympathy for our pain.And don’t let what happen take away from what you had, things change, but that does not mean that what you shared/had was any less meaningful.
Continue with your journey, keep working on yourself and moving forward. You never know what the future holds..
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