February 2, 2016 at 2:12 pm #58796Hannah07Participant
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After 3 days of no contact then another 4 of limited contact my ex offered to come over to help me practice for my driving test. After about 15 minutes of being together he told me he had made a mistake and wanted me back, I told him that it was ok and that we could try again. I was so excited, he told me he loved me and missed me so much and I said it back. We decided to take things slow and see how things go for a few weeks before making it completely official again.
When my boyfriend and I had broken up, he was texting me every single day and it seemed like he was desperate to talk to me, he was also extremely flirty. Now that we are back together he hasn’t text me or tried to contact me himself once, he ignored my messages yesterday and the day before. He replied to me late last night and we had a semi-normal conversation but when it ended all he said was “goodnight” , no I love you, no hearts no xxx like we always used to… Maybe I’m overreacting but it feels like he only wanted me while he couldn’t have me, and now that he’s got me he has lost interest again even though we have been back together for 2 days.
I’m terrified of losing him again and I feel even worse then I did when we were broken up. Does anyone have any advice on how I should keep him interested because I really can’t go through the whole break up thing again. I know not to be clingy or needy which I haven’t been at all, I’m going to try not to message him at all which feels very strange considering he is my boyfriend.
On top of this he is too scared to come to my house because of my parents which is ridiculous considering he is an adult. I just finished school so am still living at home for the moment and my boyfriend says he will not come to my house. He is scared that because he hurt me, my parents (especially my father) will be mad at him. Yes they were a little upset but my parents are very nice people and would never say or do anything to my boyfriend to make him uncomfortable, they have done nothing but welcome him into our family.
I am possibly going over to his house tonight depending on how my driving test goes and i’m scared. We have been together four years but since the break up I have no idea how to act around him, I feel like everything I do will be wrong and push him away… What should I do!!!!!February 3, 2016 at 4:07 pm #58847Heisenblue1Participant
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Be cool and collected, its not just men who need to be composed. It might be as simple as that.February 4, 2016 at 2:18 am #58865Hannah07Participant
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I didn’t end up going and wont see him for at least another week and a half. I have been very calm and not needy or clingy at all but im worried it’s not enough…
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