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I wanted to give you more brief description about my relation with my ex, we have been together for 5 monthes and she had a bad previous relation and she have been hurted a lot from her ex as she told me, they were married for 7 years and he have beaten her up and abused her before she could finally leave him, we didn’t have any kind of pproblems between us since we have started and by the way we are living in two different cities and we used to meet like once every month but lately before she broke up with me I started to feel that she is being kind of away from me and when I talked to her about it she started to give me explanations made me full of doupts that she might be sheeting on me and once I faced it with it she didn’t like it and then she told me that she really loves me and would never do this and we spent another week together with everything fine between us then one day she told me she is going to meet an old friend she didn’t see from 10 years and they went out together and she texted me when she returned that she was home and she will make a phone call and return back to me and she left me for another hour and when I called her she told me she was talking to him asking him about some data she wanted from him about her ex husband for certain issues between them concerning the kids and staff like this and I was extremely angry and told her she was ignorning my feelings by doing this and she started to tell me silly explanations abot it which made me doubtful again and she told me that she can’t stand my doupts anymore and stopped talking to me and in the next day I tried to talk to her she told me she wont repeat her experience again and she feels I am the same character as her ex and I started to tell her that I am not and I am sorry about what I did and wont repeat it so she told me I need space for a while to think and I started to do everything you mentioned not to do till she blocked me everywhere and I stopped talking to her since and it have been four days now since I last sent her, and as I told you we were planning to travel after 20 days and we booked everything and I don’t know should I go or not and will she show up or she will just drop everything and I wont see her again
Hey,
I’ll recommend you do no contact for a couple of months. You should cancel the trip. This girl has a lot of emotional baggage and like another poster said, you might just be a rebound for her. Do no contact for 2 months. And contact her after that. Hopefully, she will be in a better position emotionally and you will have a better chance of starting a healthy relationship with her. If not, you should move on.
Hi Kavin
Sorry I had a really tough day and I couldn’t stand it anymore, I just was in a bad need for her, I sent her a massage from a while telling her how I am having a hard time (concerning other issues not her) and that I just needed to talk to her and she dosnt have to replay my msg, I recieaved a msg from her after half an hour telling me that its ok for her to call or text her any time as long as there is (no hard talks) and that she appreciate me as a character (regardless everything) and I didn’t understand so much what was ment by these two phrases, I am kind of happy but at the same time confused and affraid to take any step now might be out of mistranslating her msg, what do you think
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