Boards Reconciliation help recent breakup. can I get her back???

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    Okami
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    Hi i have been in a recent breakup with my gf of 1 year we are both 18 (known each other for 3) we had a very calm breakup with no arguments or anything.

    On our anniversary she said she didn’t want to lead me on but she doesn’t feel the same anymore (we didn’t split up at this point) . 2 weeks later she decided that she wanted too meet up too talk things through, we decided too give it ago and try and fix things we had an amazing day and at the end of it she said she loved me and her feelings were coming back. but then 2 weeks later she called me up to end it as she said she didn’t feel the same anymore and she wasn’t happy in the relationship and decided too end it.

    I’ve been doing the no contact since but im just wondering if its still possible to get her back when she has tried herself to get the feeling back as she really didn’t want to stop loving me. her collage life and stuff had become very stressful over the last 2 months, because of the amount of workload and this could have caused it just because of the stress of everything. but do you think there’s a chance of me getting her back when she has tried herself to get her feeling back. (we did text and call everyday so im hoping could it just be that everything was getting too much and this no contact will give her the space and time too sort her head out and hopefully come back) breakup was 1 week ago.

    #37997
    kaila
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    Yes! Do no contact for at least 2 3 weeks or even a month. She will go crazy x)

    #38003
    Okami
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    Thanks and I’m thinking of waiting till the ends of her Easter holidays as well about 4 weeks after we broke up. And half of it she will have had off from collage so she won’t have any work or anything too keep distracting her from missing me hopefully xD.

    Btw I was thinking as she will probably text happy Easter on Easter so is it worth me ignoreing the text or just replying something like “happy Easter! Hope things are going well :)” and then go back to no contact for another 2 weeks or something? Thanks
    P.s she did know that I was going too do no contact but I never said how long for will this lesson the effect at all?

    #38004
    Okami
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    P.p.s I didn’t say that I was doing no contact exactly but I said something like “I will need time to heal and I will text when I’m ready”

    Sorry for blabbering on xD

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