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    Rose
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    hello.. i’ve been dating a guy for the past 2 years but i had to take the decision to seperate with him because we are not the same religion.. but i still love him very much.. but we have been seperated since 2 months and we are in the same class.. i cant get over him because he still wants to talk to me.. but i cant talk to him like a friend and i want to completely avoid him.. pls suggest me some solutions. thank you

    #59387
    Rose
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    any help i would be greatful 🙂

    #59390
    JeanValins
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    You breakup with him, the best thing is to chat with him normaly and keep the past away, be in control of what you say

    Usually who do cost the breakup dont care but i can tell you are pretty great girl and things will go good on you

    Religion is not a problem if you love each other and if you wanna try to love him again I’ll let you know how you do it for now give yourself distance sometimes but whenever you talk with him just talk normally about normal things and if you keep him near you sooner later you want think of him like he is your boyfriend

    Any help i m here

    #59413
    Rose
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    thanks for your help.
    but when we broke up he engaged him in the election in our university.. the he got elected as a faculty representative.. then in december when there was the end of year party, we both dance together and i could not stop myself when he asked me to give him a kiss..and we both dance together..

    now he is busy with other things and he told me that he want me back but he dont want to make me his girlfriend in the university because he dont want to let anyone know that we’re dating.. i think because he know a lot of girls that he dont want to let them know that he has a girlfriend.. and thats why i dont want to go back to him.. but when we’re in class..he will come and sit beside me and then he will annoy me and talk to me even if i dont want to talk to him.
    and i dont know what to do!

    #59424
    Rose
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    pls suggest me what to do 🙁

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    JeanValins
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    What are you planing to do?

    #59437
    Rose
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    i just want to make him stop talking to me.. but he does not want and he talk to me whenever he want. i dont want to talk to him or be near him.. am looking for a solution to make him stop talking to me.. because when we talk that hurt me as i cant talk to him like a friend..

    #59439
    starlight
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    so he wants all the perks of having you without being committed to you… just tell him you need some time to your self. .. do you think or know he talking to others

    #59441
    Rose
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    yes he talk with lots of girls and is always surrounded by many girls.. but he also want me to be with him outside the university.. he said he want a personal life with me but he will treat me just like a friend in the university in front of everyone! this affect me seeing him with lots of girls enjoying in front of me.. and also i cant do nothing when he came and sit beside me in class and start talking to me normally.. i just want a solution to make him stop talking to me normally as if nothing happened!

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