Hey everyone!!
You can read my threads if you don’t know my story but I can’t tell you all how true this advice is…
I begrudgingly followed the NC rule…I was not fool-proof doing it.. i broke down sometimes and sent a message but it really does work. my ex even had a new gf…
it got to a point where i said ok ive got to pick myself up, get out of bed, and get out of this funk…started working out, got a new job, went to therapy, got involved in church….i don’t know if any of you are religious but i gave my pain to God and asked him to direct my life while im in this stagnant place…
and my ex now wants to reconnect…im not getting my hopes up and im taking baby steps but i wanted to let you all know…don’t get caught up in the hopeless feelings and depression…your ex WILL wonder where you went… wish me luck yall…:)