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She did call me now beacuse she has New nails and want to tell me how happy she was and how Amazing her nails are now ! And that she is got a new friend today !
So im not going to be rude or something like that, she dont deserve that !
But im really glad that she want to share her happines with me !I didn’t think she would call me any more today really,beacuse what i told her earlier.
@sadman29 It’s a good sign that she wanted to share her happiness with you:) Try to stay with positive thoughts..
I think so to ! And i think she will that beacuse she knows that im going to be happy for her ! So yeah, that did make ne really happy !
So now i keep up with No contact with her, only if she contact me first, and i do hope that i hear from her today, so i can get a feeling thats she thinking on me, or want to talk with me !
It helps so Much talking with you and when you say its a good sign, then i really believe that to!
Now it just looks like she just used me, to make her feel good with herself, and when everything is good in her life, she dont need me !
She send me video on snapchat that she is on a party with her ex boyfriend or boyfriend, i dont know what to call it !
I haven been in contact with her this week at all and i have get question if im angry or something is wrong !
I mean she really should know whats going on ! After i told her if she would think about to try again !Now its looks like she just call wulf wulf everytime, when she needs help and someone to talk with, then im good enough ! But thats its ! And it hurts so Much that she is lying to my face, im the father of her Child! Dont i deserve the truth? And i dont see why she cant be honest ?
If she is so scared to lose my support, then be honest !I really dont know if i should tell her what i feel about her now ? Or I just have to let her go ?
In my eyes i start to Wonder if she deserve a guy like me ? Or yeah, i have so many thougts in my head right now !
@sadman29 I’m sorry..sometimes I have a little trouble understanding. Did she send the video and ask you if you’re angry or upset? If so, I guess you didn’t reply?
Apparently she didn’t give up the party life! If she’s still with the boyfriend, it seems she would be talking to him to make her feel good.. Maybe you should ask her if she has a boyfriend!
She knows you want to try again. You could tell her what’s in your heart and if she doesn’t want to work things out with you after that, then don’t contact her except to pick up the children and drop them off..and at those times just be polite. And don’t respond to anything she texts to you either.
This is very sad. Maybe she needs more time to grow up and mature.
Now, she just sendt me a text today and ask if i was angry, beacuse i have been so quite these days.
I did ask if she had a boyfriend and she tell me no, but they somethimes sleeps togheter and he is around her in the house, but not togheter.
And she did call me today to talk about our son and after a few min she was talking about herself and what i had for plans today, then i told her what she means to me and how Much i care for her, she told me that she lost her words and didnt know what to say ! She didnt say Much back and i honestly believe that she dont expected that ! And i told her that o really want to try again and i think that now is the right time !
Now i cant do anything more, so if this isnt enough, then i have lost her ! And i have to try to move on ! But its hard, and i really hope that this means something to her.
@sadman29 Sounds like a friend with benefits situation, not a loving committed boyfriend relationship.
You’ve said all you can say about wanting to reconcile. If you give her a little more time to think about what you’ve offered and she doesn’t want to try talking about re-uniting, then you should give up.
If she contacts you before Monday with a casual text, reply that you don’t want her to contact you until she gives you an answer as to whether or not she wants to try reconciliation. Or next time you see her, ask for a definite answer about reconciliation.
Yes, shw knows what she means to me after 1.5 year apart and she knows that i want to try again !
I take it as a good sign that she lost her word when i told her today,and mabye that actually mean something for her ! So now are everything up to her and if she dont do something, then she dont have my support anymore !
So im going to be quiet and dont say anything more ! Only be in contact about my kids and thats it, then she have to decide if she want more than that !
So today i ask for an answere from my ex about to try again, beacuse she ask me if i could think about moving to her hometown in a few years, beacuse she wants that and cant move anywhere beacuse the kids and my decision. So my question for her was :
But do you want to give an honest feedback on what I asked you about then? Not now, but soon
Because it meant something when you ran out of words, and you notice something when you see a personAnd her answere was:
Yeah maybe I’ll do it someday. But there is no pressure or anything. For that should not lie in the decision. I can’t bear to think that way now. Have enough with everything from before.
So i really dont know how i shall take that answere?
Beacuse for ne it seems like she just answere something right away, and thats it.@sadman29 You say you asked her for an answer. Was it done in person or by text? “she ask me if i could think about moving to her hometown in a few years” A few years? Why would she say that? Does she sometimes drive to your place to pick up the kids? How far apart are you?
Actually she’s had over 1 1/2 years to consider if she would get back together with you or not. Not because you told her you want to try again, but about the possibility of whether she would want to reunite or not if you asked her.
Don’t initiate any contact unless it has to do with the children. This is a very sad situation, especially because of the children who deserve to be in a happy family.
I did ask about that when i drove my kids to her place today.
Its just 15 min to drive to her place, so not far apart No.She did ask about that beacuse if i dont move, then she cant move beacuse the kids and i have to allow her to take our kids with her, and why should i move beacuse she dont like it here ?
Yes, i think she only Said that so im going to say, yes lets move again ! So i think she is trying to use me, and thats makes me really sad, beacuse i do really love her and want to try so my kids can grow up with both parents, but it looks like she just thinking about herself and honestly dont care for me anymore or have feelings for me.
Im going to step back, dont contact her or be any support for her anymore ! Its going to ve hard for me, but i have to so it ! To make sure that she see that i can have a life without her to !
@sadman29 Yes, she seems selfish and only interested in herself. If she wanted to move, she could move to another place near you, couldn’t she? I agree that you shouldn’t contact her or support her anymore! Only be polite when you pick up the kids. Don’t talk about re-uniting anymore! She has to make a decision and she should tell you her decision sometime soon. If she doesn’t, tell her you’re not waiting any longer and will move on with your life..
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