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Why would an ex be nice after the breakup? Especially, if they were very angry, cruel, and hurtful before/during?
My ex blamed me and said a lot of hurtful un-true things about me during the breakup. Now he has been messaging me wanting to know if I’m okay, telling me he wants to hear everything I have to say, told me he was sorry, etc. Why the change?
Has anyone else experienced this or have any thoughts? I’m curious.
That sounds like ur ex is either regretting the breakup and wanting to get back or wanting to keep u as a close friend since he is hurt too. I don’t know how long u guys have dated and had NC or not, but if u r happy with the breakup and have no truthful feeling to get back with him, then do not give him the wrong idea. It will become a cycle of pain for both of u and drag the uncertainty for both people. Have a serious talk with him.
Probably he realises his mistakes and wants to get back with you.
If you still like him, talk to him about the possibilities maybe.I broke up with my bf, n I feel terrible. I said stuff when I was angry to him which I didn’t even mean. Sometimes anger gets the best of you. Not that my ex was an angel but he told me the truth about wat was going on but instead of being supportive I got angry.
N when you say something , its difficult to take it back. So I would say talk to him n see wat he wants and you want.
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