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My ex is away at college and we haven’t spoken in 2-3 weeks. He is with friends all day everyday and is so distracted by them and baseball. I am doing no contact but I feel like he doesn’t even think about me or even has time to miss me because he is always with his friends or at parties and they take his attention away from me. I don’t want to hit him up first but I feel like he wont because of all these distractions.
He can have all distractions, even another girl, but he if loves you he will think of you and wont contact cause he is resisting. But at some point he will do it. If not after the no contact rule, send him a text, not a needy one just follow hat the site says(:
Thank you for the advice! If he does text me, do I respond or ignore? He will most likely say “hope everything is going good” or something. Any thoughts?
He is away at school with his brother and I havent spoken to him in 2 weeks. I texted his brother asking how he was and how hes doing in school and baseball, and his brother said that hes doing great and that he is “more excited and focused than ever before” and honestly, that kind of made me feel like shit… like weeks after we break up, hes doing better in alot of stuff. Im just losing hope because I seriously think he is doing so much better without me or is not even a little bit miserable. Im happy hes doing good in baseball because that is something truly important to him, it just hurt knowing that hes doing better than ever, kind of like I was distracting him. Not sure how to handle that and that made me feel like there really is no chance.
Im focusing on myself right now and not contacting him, Im just honestly scared of the outcome from the breakup, like will he realize hes perfectly fine without me because he has no much filling that void in his life?
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