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Background:
Dated the girl almost 2 years and we had a great relationship. We never faught and if we did it lasted 5 minutes and that was the end of it. I always gave 100% and put her happiness above mine.About 6 weeks ago she broke up with me out of the blue telling me she needed space ( week before she was telling me how much she loved me and cold see herself with me the rest of her life and all this other shit). She cut off all contact with me and haven’t heard from her since. Now I find out 3 weeks after we broke up she’s talking to a kid she has worked with all summer. I know through am unnamed source that this kid is professing his love to her but I don’t know her responses.( i asked before in a post if it was a rebound thing and everyone believed it was)
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I found out that she is keeping tabs on me with my twitter and instagram. for example i got a tattoo yesterday and i know through a friend of a friend that she has been screen shooting (taking pictures) of post like that. another one she took a picture of was a gym quote because I’m into lifting. Does this mean anything? do you think she still cares enough to eventually come back? if so how do i play this off?
I think you need to tell her how you feel and then tell her if she wants to be with someone else- fine. I would keep cool and just keep working on yourself. Stay positive. Whatever is meant to be, will be. If you’re meant to be together… Not even she can fight fate. Take the higher ground and believe that everything will work itself out.
I should take my own advice.
what do you make of her keeping tabs on me like that … do you think she still cares enough to want me
Hey,
She misses you and i think she still has feelings for you but that doesn’t necessarily means that she wants you back.
You don’t have to say anything about your feelings,the breakup or getting back together.She doesn’t have to be sure that you want her back.You should follow the 5step plan.
Here’s a checklist for ending no contact.-You followed the no contact rule for at least one month.
-You are no longer a mess as you were after the breakup.
-You have made a few positive changes in your life.
-You are absolutely sure that getting back with your ex is a good decision.
-You have gone on at least one date during no contact.
-You have accepted the breakup and you are OK with the fact that you may never get your ex back and this might never work for you.
-You have accepted the fact that even if you don’t get your ex back, you will be fine since there are endless opportunities in the world to find love and happiness.
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