-
Posts
-
My ex recently started dating after moving away cross country. we have been apart 4 weeks, she has been dating ?2 weks max. i went ballistic and acteda fool
now initiated NO contact
Did a few things before so
1. ordered flowers delivery date in 4 days
2. ordered a hoodie for her dog delivery date in 12 days
3. ordered custom wine glasses delivery date 12/19i plan not to acknowledge any communication when she gets these, however should I keep no contact 30-35 days from now OR 30 days from delivery of the last item…smh
You need to cancel all those things or send the to someone else. We do not give gifts to people who leave us, we give gifts to people who are with us and love us.
When she gets those things, it will not have the desired effect you are hoping for and you will be disappointed. And it will also look needy on your part.Ok so tried to cancel the first too late
Haven’t heard from her after though
Was hoping no contact and my silence wld be better if the flowers forced her to contact me.
Also was a little ‘creative” to get her address, dont know if that freaked her out also
Desperately wanting her to reach out although I WILL NOT reply, need to know whats in her headOh yeah no good if she was not the one who gave you her address, especially if things were not good between you two.
Here is how girls look at things like that:
If you and I are in a relationship and things are going really well and you get “creative” and do things like that – we love it!!!
If you and I are not in a relationship or things are not going well and you get “creative” that scares us and you look like a stalker.I think you need to stay NC for at least 45 – 60 days.
- You must be logged in to reply to this topic.