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I am a young girl, soon to be 21. I went to Mexico for two months this summer. Met a guy there (who is 3 years younger than me, he’s 18). My family knows him, they all say he is a great guy, blah blah blah.
Thing is, we started talking, we kissed a few days afterwards, and for the next 5 days kissed and held hands everywhere, until he officially asked me to be his girlfriend. He knew I’d come back to the States, but he was fine with that.
I came back in August. However, a couple days before returning, I asked him if he wanted to continue this relationship, even though it would be long distance. He said “we don’t lose anything if we try”. So, I agreed. By then, he had said “I love you” already and me, I fell in love for the first time in my life.
Two weeks ago, he started acting distant. He said he had no time to text or call, yet I would see his “likes” on Facebook. That honestly did hurt me; he sees his friends every day, so why wouldn’t he give me a few minutes of his days instead of them?
I did made him a “jealousy” scene, but not because I’m insecure about other girls, but because I’m jealous that they get his time and I didn’t.
Well, last Monday, he broke up with me. He said it was too hard to maintain this LDR (Long Distance Relationship), but if I went back again in December, we could try it again.
I got pissed off and told him I wasn’t a toy that he’d play with whenever he wanted to.
We sent a few more texts. The next day, I told him I missed him, and good luck in his life. He ignored my texts (through Whatsapp, so I can see when he read it).
He has not tried to contact me this past week.
I have him on Facebook, Instagram, and Whatsapp. I’m not sure if the “No Contact” rule means deleting him off all social sites, since I upload pics and statuses daily. Not about him anymore.
Do you think he loves me? Do I have a chance? How can I make him want me, especially LDR? When I go back for vacation in December, IF he asks me out, does that make me a doormat if I right away say yes? Do I have to play hard to get?
I am in love with him, but I don’t know what to do to get him back – if he truly loves me too.
Thank you.
Hey,
I know that you really want him back so i suggest you to follow the step plan.It will increase your chances.
No,you don’t have to delete him off all social sites but you don’t have to stalk him on social media.Use social media to show him that you’re doing great and you’re having a really good time without him in your life.
During this time,you should make sure that its gonna be a long healthy relationship if two get back together.
Here’s a checklist for ending no contact.-You followed the no contact rule for at least one month.
-You are no longer a mess as you were after the breakup.
-You have made a few positive changes in your life.
-You are absolutely sure that getting back with your ex is a good decision.
-You have gone on at least one date during no contact.
-You have accepted the breakup and you are OK with the fact that you may never get your ex back and this might never work for you.
-You have accepted the fact that even if you don’t get your ex back, you will be fine since there are endless opportunities in the world to find love and happiness.Good luck
Last night, my ex sent me a text saying that he missed me and that he wished I was with him (physically), but he knew it wasn’t possible at the moment, so he can’t wait until December to see me again and give me a hug.
It surprised me to wake up to that message.
Do I reply? I wasn’t the one who contacted me, it was him after a week of our break up with no contact at all, so what do I do next?
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