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Didn't wish my Ex a hbd

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  • May 8, 2015 at 1:52 pm #44928
    NewMe15
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    I’m doing the NC and I didn’t wish my ex a happy bday. He wrote it on fb (that i didn’t wish him a hbd).

    Today is day 6. I haven’t said anything, is he upset? He hasn’t tried reaching out to me (and Yes, he dumped me).

    May 8, 2015 at 2:04 pm #44931
    johnboy439
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    Im in a similar situation or could be my ex has her bday this weekend she left me but im wondering what she might do or say

    May 8, 2015 at 2:53 pm #44953
    NewMe15
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    Are you going to wish her a hbd? How long have you been on the NC?

    May 8, 2015 at 3:20 pm #44961
    johnboy439
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    No im not going to and not long but we were on off for a month till a new guy came into the picture now shes been seeing him for a month a few friends think its a rebound so I have ignored her completely blocked her on everything but theres been signs she has
    Feelings for me time will tell

    May 8, 2015 at 3:24 pm #44962
    NewMe15
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    That’s good to not wish her one (it sounds like she doesn’t deserve it anyway!).

    It definitely sounds like a rebound 1 month is too soon to start actively dating after being in a relationship (i’m sure it wont last and im sure she misses you!).

    Stay Strong 🙂

    May 8, 2015 at 3:28 pm #44964
    johnboy439
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    Thanks newme15 thankyou im taking my time to improve myself and i will but i think in your situation i think he does have feelings for you too if he didnt he wouldnt have said anything trust me im a bloke 😉

    May 8, 2015 at 5:16 pm #44990
    KPowers1192
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    He dumps you. Then makes a big deal out of not wishing him a happy birthday? He should of expected that. I wouldn’t be worried if he’s upset. If he is, its a good thing. If there were no feelings for you, he wouldn’t care about you not wishing him a happy birthday.

    May 11, 2015 at 8:48 pm #45464
    NewMe15
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    Johnboy439, no problem. Thank you keep up the great work. KPowers1192, Yes you’re right i honestly DONT understand how he could of expected that. As hard as it is, I’m still sticking to my 30 days. I want him back but not the way he was before he broke up with me.

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