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Guys… Its my day 17 ( will be in 57 minutes ) and she hasnt texted me at all…. Im super worried… What do i do? 🙁
Hi, I answered on your other post, but don’t worry so much. Day 17 with no contact from her isn’t necessarily a bad sign. It might mean she’s thinking about things and wondering if she wants to reconcile or not. Keep you chin up and continue no contact for now. You will know what to do in time..
Keep the faith, when I implemented the NC for 30days he called on Day29. I had to stay strong thru the night and the next day. I called back on Day 31
Mine didn’t contact me at all for 90 days last time and we still got back together (granted he’s had the same panic this year again and wants to do NC for longer this time 🙁 ) but keep your chin up! ❤️
🙂 your posts make hopeful… Thank you guys so much. Day 18 and stillgoing on… Feeling considerably hopeful
You should do honestly 🙂
Do you think someone would go back out with someone for a second time? We broke up, did NC and got back together last April, but he’s had the same panic he had last year and I’m scared he won’t want to get bCk together for a second time :'(
One should,according to me. You dont just kick people out of your life. Unless theres no otherway. Its natural to be scared. But fear will make you lose ur peace amy. Just go through NC. Tough but it should work. Love does prevail all. And i also wish to ask about a super recent development and i curse my luck for it. I was on messenger and i just happened to open her chat. She was online or”active” it said. I just gave it alittle flick and a mother******* like got sent :'( i deleted it when it had a white tick but i doubt that it mightv reached her. Now shes not active on messenger but i know shes on her phone. She probably saw it. But hasnt responded yet. …have i screwed up my NC ??? :'( or my chance?
Noooo you haven’t at all, I reckon if she does reply then play cool and just say oops sorry accident! Or something along those lines and continue NC (unless she starts talking to you properly :))
True…ahh I hope so. Thing is, he’s asked for a longer NC than last time now-and last time was 3 months!! So I was going to do 5, but I’m worried in 5 months he would have forgotten about me, especially as he’s going travelling for 2 of those months 🙁 I feel like it is all hopeless if I’m honest! :'(
She hasnt replied so far. But she is online. :'( not sure if i should be happy or sad xD but i bet she was checking my messages only. ( i hope) cuz last i knew all her frnds use whatsapp and theres no new people shes got on fb. ( she hasnt blocked me there) lets pray for both of us
She too has told me she doesnt want to hear from me before 2 months … :'( she did 18 days ago.
And to be truly hopeful i guess you gotta pick up the whole coin and not just heads or tails. It sounds harsh but just believe either way to be possible. Because in reality anything can happen. So why be hopeless 🙂 hope is a positive feeling. And if it is making you desperate its not hope but something else. Theres a saying that the world rests on hope. So . No need to be hopeless 🙂Thats very true – Ive won him back once before, so hopefully I can do it again! I think what upsets me is the fact that he’s done it because he was scared of this ‘serious commitment’, not because his feelings had altered for me 🙁 unless he got complacent…I don’t know.
I know from last time we broke up he checked my Facebook, so I’ve been putting up pictures of me being busy and seeing friends (and i even uploaded a selfie!) so thats made me feel better. I try not to go on Facebook, however my sister said that apparently Im still listed as in a relationship with him (I kept mine hidden)….le sigh.
Guess time will tell! what day NC are you on again? 🙂
Day 22 no contact. From her or from me. Still holding up somehow. Feeling blank of sorts
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