I think you miss the point. The book talks about using NC as the ONLY reason. However, it points to a pretty strict strategy, depending on where you’re at (Bliss, switch, Drift, or death’s door), that includes NC, in certain stages. It also emphasizes working on yourself, making positive changes in your life, and planning things because nothing is guaranteed. There’s always a chance the plan might not work, but you’ll be better prepared if it doesn’t, and can move on with your life (or that’s kinda what i got outta it). But IF, the plan works, it points out the problems that moved you from bliss, and ways you can make your relationship better. In bliss and switch, it’s not recommended. However, it IS recommended in Drift and Death’s Door. Death’s Door even says maybe a couple of months of NC…