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    patrick d
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    Couple of weeks? Oh god. Can’t help but Feeling bad about those Messages. Misunderstood means that I felt like I had a Chance. I’m sure of that. She might have really meant friends and nothing more.

    But on the up side, she was texting. And the negative things are surely still in her head. To text earlier saying she was worried was good i suppose. And getting angry is better than saying ‘ah well whatever’. What’s your honest take on it?

    #27134
    Caz15
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    It’s hard doing NC but it does get easier I promise you that. Do not feel bad about those texts it what you need to do!

    Exactly she is texting and asking you how you are if she just wanted friends she wouldn’t be angry by you asking for space.

    All in good time but I think she will be back for a relationship

    #27135
    patrick d
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    I hope you are right. I really do.

    #27136
    Caz15
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    Patience & time are the key ingredients and getting back to you

    #27138
    Caz15
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    Always here if you wanna rant or talk

    #27141
    patrick d
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    Thanks so much. And the same goes to you too. Could do with some Lyons tea now

    #27142
    Caz15
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    I have a box here with me, took some back to the UK 🙂

    #27143
    patrick d
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    I should have done the same. Regretting it since I left. And McCambridge Brown bread. Do you know that?

    #27144
    Caz15
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    It’s lovely bread, I do miss the little things of home but always stock up when I go home to bring back with me?

    How are you feeling now?

    #27145
    patrick d
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    Feeling worried to be honest. She is angry and that is tough for me. I don’t want her to start getting bad Feelings about me. She was thinking about me at least until last night and now she might be thinking that I am just an idiot that won’t take no as an answer. But as you said, maybe she is angry because I am saying no for the first time. I can’t deal with false friendship right now but I am guessing that she wanted a Hand over of letters somewhere. That’s something anyway

    #27148
    Caz15
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    Don’t feel worried, the NC states that their is a possibility that they will get angry because we are ignoring them but this passes in time and they start to realise.

    We have to stop being the needy desperate ones, theirs a saying “become the hunted not the hunter”

    If you feel your not ready for a false friendship don’t, don’t give her something that will make her happy but you miserable.

    #27150
    patrick d
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    That’s a good saying. I felt hunted today a bit. Where are you from anyway? You don’t and maybe shouldn’t answer that. But my guess from the way you write is northern half of the Country midlands?

    #27152
    Caz15
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    And it’s nice to be hunted, you know she is thinking about you. Because you haven’t contacted Her in 7 days she was wondering why you haven’t text or called.

    I’m from dublin but live in liverpool now.

    #27153
    patrick d
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    Christ she is texting again. This time with an inside joke about eating bananas. ??What the fook is going on? I am being hunted maybe

    #27154
    patrick d
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    I’m from Cyavan but live in Berlin. Liverpool is a great City. You should have lots to do there in the evenings. You probably find going out hard without drinking. A tip; Drink non alcoholic Drinks. You get used to it and they are a lot better than coke etc

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