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Okay so my boyfriend and I broke up almost 3 weeks ago and I haven’t tried to make contact with him since the morning of the breakup. The last time he tried to make contact with me was 2 weeks after when he sent me a snapchat of his chewing tobacco tins and said they were the best thing that had ever happened to him. He deleted me off of Facebook and after that I deleted him off of snapchat.
I feel like my NC period has been going pretty well for me, I’m not as emotionally unstable as I was right after the breakup but it still hurts. I’ve been working out and tanning and hanging out with friends. I’m trying to prepare myself for school which starts in a few days and we go to the same school.
I’ve decided that I don’t want him back, but that doesn’t mean I never want to speak to him again. Right now I’m still angry at him and disappointed in him, and I don’t want to reach out to him. However I’m surprised because I thought by now he would have tried to make contact with me, but I’ve heard nothing. I feel like he doesn’t miss me at all and doesn’t feel guilty and that frustrates me. Even if we don’t get back together I want him to realize what he lost. How can I do that?
Also I’m wondering how I conduct myself at school. I cut him out of my life and I want nothing to do with him and I want to avoid him but he have so many mutual friends it’s going to be hard. What do I do if I see him? I want to be classy but I also don’t want him to think everything’s cool.
I appreciate any replies you guys really help a lot thank you so much.
I say just be super confident if you ever are around him will show him what he’s lost. Be super happy and dress to impress, and you’ll do it on your own! As for being around him, I’d say only talk to him if he talks to you first. Ignore him otherwise. If you have to, or do want to talk to him, be polite but try to keep it to a minimum. I think that would be the classy way to go.
I can’t really dress to impress because our school has uniforms but I can try!
Also my best friend told me that he deleted her off of Facebook today. I don’t understand because she never tried to contact him either. Her profile picture was the two of us, maybe that set him off, I don’t know but it’s been that for about a week and he’s just deleting her now.
I just have a hard time believing that he wants nothing to do with me when we were so close not too long ago. I don’t understand why he’s angry if he’s the one who wanted to end things.
I’ve had 3 weeks NC so far and I’ve heard nothing. It’s becoming more frustrating now because I think about him every single day all the time and I get really angry at the way he treated me and how he acting now. I’m also angry at myself for letting myself be treated like crap for as long as I did.
I’m having to try harder now not to text him and tell him he has no right to be angry at me and go off on him on all the reasons why I’m so angry at him. Why am I getting so angry all of a sudden?
And I feel like NC is backfiring because it seems like he doesn’t miss me at all. He’s deleted my best friend and I off of Facebook and is hanging out with his friends a lot doing bad stuff and if he missed me wouldn’t he try to contact me?
My ex took 32 days to contact. I’ve heard of people’s exes who take months to contact, and later admit that they did miss them and thought about them often. It can take a long time for them to give in to the urge to contact.
I don’t think he misses me though because he’s already talking to his ex that I asked him to stay away from because she was trying to meddle in our relationship. He was with this girl for 8 months, he left his previous girlfriend for her and was unhappy because she kept flirting with other guys among other things and he made it sound like he despised her, but now I feel like it’s always been her and he has wanted her instead of me. I don’t think I can stand seeing them together at school.
It angers me so much because I feel like he was harbouring feelings for her throughout our entire relationship. I was loyal to him and we hung out all the time outside of school. He never hung out with her and he put up with her flirting with other guys for 8 months, and he broke up with me after 4 months because I was “always mad” when he knows damn well he cheated on me and he was immature. The day after we break up he goes running back to this girl I asked him not to talk to and he hadn’t talked to her for 3 months. What makes anyone thing he won’t cut me out of his life and do the same thing?
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