Boards No Contact Rule agreed to break up few days after, didnt know about the plan

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    Juan10
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    So few days after we broke up i texted my ex saying how i accepted the break up. I was mad and talked without knowing about the plan. she replied saying how that made her feel better and she can be at peace now and she feels better after i accepted it. Im on day 7th of NC but idk what she thinks now. What should I do?

    #34501
    relax
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    Stay strong and keep to the plan it’s for your own good aswell. At the back of my mind i sometimes wonder if she still thinks about me but with everyday that goes by i feel better about myself, time is the only healer.

    #34525
    Juan10
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    Im starting to feel better too but i feel like she’s leaving for good 🙁

    #34746
    cat womann
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    She needs time to miss u. Something my impatient self decided against and it might work against me or not. I sent him a letter after 2 weeks and now I’m waiting.. At least I’m not checking my other phone all the time. I love him but I’m not the type to wait alongtime. Besides I do have an ex Boyfriend in town that wants me back but I keep putting him of because I’m waiting for this guy that hasnt defined our relationship to say its over. I don’t believe we r over yet.

    #34752
    Juan10
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    Thats true. few days later after we broke up she told me it was sad she didn’t miss me or our relationship because there was nothing good to miss. Just fights. I hope NC works and she reaches out for me. But i see that not happening since she seemed all happy and ok with the break up.

    If you want your ex just be patient it sucks but thats what you have to be really patient. Cuz you might get back eith your other ex but if the other one comes back or finds out you will be in a hard situation. I suggest you wait and see how things work out first before trying to get with the other one.

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