Last week I spoke to my ex and told her I was going to see a concert with friends. This was true and I went and had a great time. I even had a date two days after that. But the main point is that I stayed on NC. During that conversation she was uneasy and in a hurry to end the call, she wanted “some time” to pass before we tried to hang as friends.
My ex has been seeing an old BF since we split 2 months ago. Since that time she has not initiated contact with me, I have been the one to do that. And its been mainly civil and unfrequent. Then I found this site.
Anyway, the important part is that last night, after 4 days of no contact (and the weekend passing) she texts me at 10:30 pm to ask how the concert was. Seems like an odd time to ask such a question. I am probably reading too much into this but it is a first since we split, her reaching out to me. Maybe she is just being friendly?
Thoughts team LOL