So I had been speaking to my ex, therefore I’ve asked him for some time out, so NC is not a shock for him, like it should be. But a week in, and no word at all from him, not a message, not a FB like.
I know there is another point to this, that I work on myself in this time, so I have joined a hula hoop class and started cooking healthy food and scrapped the take-aways, and I am booking in something to do every day after work to stop me moping, and wondering where he is, and with who(m).
The last message I had from him was understanding but said “I know it is hard, but breaking up was right for me” so I ask you, is this futile, am I just kidding myself??