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So yeah, I messed up. I read this site and other books but thought I could fix it… I kinda did because we got back.
The problem was that I couldn’t change, I couldn’t fix myself.So now we’re “over but not over. I can’t get into a relationship but we see how things go in two months” kinda thing ?
I’m not strong. It’s been 4 days and I’m so close to just pleading and making the same mistakes. If she messages me I know I’m going to reply.
I know it’s my fault that we broke up. I didn’t cheat, I just changed and got really depressed. I don’t know how to fix it because I’m still the same. I’m probably worse.
I need to keep this going. I need to follow these rules. Not just for the relationship, because maybe we won’t work… But for me. It’s torture to continue this.
I need help. I need advice and if possible, someone to just listen to me. Someone to give some guidance on how to do this.
I think you already know the answer to the question. What the real problem is you. Fake it till you make it. Fake change until the change becomes real.
I’m on the same page. I tried to follow this too, but didn’t listen – contacted after like 5 days (couldn’t even make it a week) and we’re done again. I basically said I changed myself, but I didn’t.. work on you. I know it’s hard, but trust me, you’ll thank me (and Kevin! 🙂 ) I’m in the process of that now.
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