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After 4 months I sent a regular letter with specific apology, a rs bliss memory and interest in her things. No begging, neediness level low. -> No response.
Few weeks later an e-mail with some fun/interest and positive thing about myself. -> No response.
Normally this would be the moment to move on. But from something I saw, there might be a small chance. At the same time I actually will move on…or try my best to.
What to send?
You read at some sites to send her short positive messages that she can relate to. That you show her you are the one that really understands her, build the connection… At the same time they say to stay present and not talk about the rs/breakup. How? Does anyone have some examples?Try sending a reach-out text that doesn’t have anything to do with the relationship. If you get back in contact, talk about things she likes, favorites foods/TV shows/movies, things she has been up to, ask about her family/work/school/hobbies. Discuss things that show you take an interest in her and care about what she’s up to. Don’t say too much about the breakup or make her feel pressured. Good luck!
Thank you for the quick reply!
Forgot to tell but a while after the letter I sent an e-mail with some fun/interest and positive thing about myself. Needless to say, no response.
I find it very hard to come up with a good short e-mail (to be send in a few weeks).
You list some nice topics! But it feels strange for me to talk about those. I feel like you can smell the ulterior motive.First, you need to stop messaging lot, whenever you send something wait for a day or two, if there is no answer call her one time a day
No rs anymore of course, but she blocked/removed all ways of contact. It’s was normal rs. For details I have an older topic.
If you had send a hand writen letter, did she contact you after it, and when you sent it
When i wrote my letter i took my neckless and gave it to her, i use a case for my neckless to keep it safe and used my perfume, what i am saying is you can send another hand writen letter with new strategy
Feels like a bribe haha. It’s a nice idea! However I don’t think it will work because that even more looks like having an ulterior motive.
You can have yor own ideas too i just told you what i did 🙂 , if you need any help or talk to somebuddy , i am always here for you
JeanValins, thank you!
Everyone else reading this topic, input is always welcome. Many people can benefit from this. 🙂
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