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July 24, 2014 at 1:12 pm #427
My bf of 1 and a half year brokw up with me 10 days back saying that we are knot compatible. We dis not have any ffights. But it was getting very ddifficult for him to manage since we hhad taken up a new house and he was already staying with his friemds.
He broke upwith me the next day of me ppesterung him to come stay with me.I was hear t broken. After 2 dayshe told me that he likes someone whom he met just a week back. The girl too bbroke up with his bf just 3 days from ttoday.i was in bed for a week and 3 ddays.
Yyou can imagine the sate of mind i was iin. He calls and asks me as to how i am doing
I had begged pleaded but he said that it is not going to work out.
He called me asking about my well bbeing even today. But i had already sstarted with the nc rule. Should i ask h him not to call me ? Is it a rebound relationship ??
PPlease suggest what needs to be done.July 24, 2014 at 7:22 pm #439jes,
Probably its a rebound! In fact, it seems like its double rebound! LOL
If he contact you, tell him that you need time and space to deal with the breakup. Follow the plan!
July 25, 2014 at 1:00 am #454Hi Dara ,
I wanted to know if is a rebound relationship with the other girl?.July 25, 2014 at 8:04 am #462Yeah! Probably its a rebound relationship. Both of them broke up recently and there are chances that they start missing their ex and move back to their previous relationships.
July 25, 2014 at 6:15 pm #493I had asked him not to contact me last night. He has unfriended me on fb today
I getting psyched now. What if that was a wrong step that i had taken?
July 25, 2014 at 6:53 pm #494Its okay! I believe not seeing him on FB will help you do this NC much easier. Don’t forget the fact that he broke up with you in the first place and started dating someone else. Probably he is playing some sort of mind games with you to win the “post breakup fight”. If you play really cool about it, it will backfire on him.
July 25, 2014 at 7:07 pm #495I hipe i havent done anythung wrong to screw up of wat was left.
He had called me yesterday only asking about my wrll being. And then acc. To you i asked him not to call me again since i needed space and time. He did not reply to the text. But he has unfriended me on fb ! Is it normal thing that people do post break up ?July 25, 2014 at 8:58 pm #499Jes,
My ex-girlfriend and I had terrible breakup. Not only did unfriend me on Facebook but also blocked me. She also told me that she does not want to see me in her life again. I came to this site simply to give some hopes to myself and see if there are slightest chances! Also, I know her and I when she says something, she really means it! Guess what!She replied to my email on 85th day. We exchanged some emails! If I work on her, I think there I might get in touch with her in a month! I have come to a conclusion that this plan works somewhat!
I believe it will help you eventually increase your chances. Follow the plan and stay cool!
Best of luck!
July 30, 2014 at 3:36 am #798HI!!!
his bday is approaching . its just after 2 days. was wondering if i should wish him ?
July 31, 2014 at 3:12 pm #932Hi !!! His bdayb is coming up in a day. Should i wish him ? I have alreafy started the nc and its a werk now. Ease suggest asap
July 31, 2014 at 3:25 pm #934NO! Don’t wish him anything! I you are really obsessed with it, send a simple happy Bday text after a week or two! Nothing more!
You can find Kevin’s suggestions on Valentine’s day, Birthdays, etc on his site! He says, “No wishes”, for the one who broke up with you!
August 6, 2014 at 12:52 am #1543Hi ! Kevin/ dara!
He is no longer in whats app! I guess he changed his number too!! Havent called him yet! He had messaged me two days back asking me to ask one of my cousin to pay the internet bill!! I just replied .k! Please do let me know what will i do.?? Have i done something wrong???
August 6, 2014 at 7:26 am #1587You haven’t done anything wrong. Breakups are rough! As you see, almost everyone here on this forum is experiencing the bad feeling.
I believe your reply was the best! So, just focus on yourself and follow the plan. There are chances that you get something out of it! I wish you the best of luck!
August 6, 2014 at 8:02 am #1595Thank you !! Will continue the same
August 8, 2014 at 3:59 am #1907Hi kevin dara,
I guess i meesse up !!! I was properly following the no contact rule!! He texted me saying that i had been talking to his present gf ex and havr been telling some personal stuff about us . i told him that i did not !! Please do let me know what needs to be done
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