is the tide turning in my favor

My ex girlfriend broke up with me 7 weeks ago.the first week we didn’t talk. Then I started begging and freaking out. I made things worse for awhile. Then about a month ago I went to her house and we just talked,mostly catching up but we had sex and the next day she said it was done for sure. So I left her alone other than a couple texts. She told me not to text that I should leave it up to her. So I stopped and a week later she called me two days in a row telling me she was missing me. The second of those days she wanted to come see me and hold me but I wasn’t home. She also said that I make her feel better when she’s down. Instead of being patient I texted her saying if I make u feel better maybe that’s your emotions telling u to be with me. I texted the next day apologizing and she said don’t apologize and she apologized for being fucked in the head. I told her I needed to be hurt to realize my mistakes. She broke up with me because she felt I was unmotivated and was making her unmotivated. I’ve been working on my problems and I lost 20 lbs also. She seems depressed and not really trying to fix herself. She says she’s depressed because I’m doing so well without her which I said I was but I’m really not. I think if I’m patient things will work out. What are your opinions of the situation?