Hi IA
Sadly, I have similar story to Dara. After 30 days of NC I did the hand written letter and delivered it to her place when she was at work. I got no reply from that. I did a follow up text 8 days later with regards to work as I knew she had just finished a major project. No reply. I know she read the letter as that info got back to me through the grapevine of friends that we have.
I’m currently on day 25 (round 2) NC with the intentions of moving on, tough as that is. Its going to be 3 months this weekend since the breakup.
I think all the people who have written the letter and have got back with their Ex are currently engaging in sex and are too busy to write and tell us that the letter work 😛