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Hi,
My girlfriend just broke up with me on mid July. I pleaded, beg for 3 weeks until I went no contact.
After 3 weeks of NC she texted me, and I replied. I asked her for to meet-up and she agreed (2 days after our text). During the meetup, I was not fully healed and I may have shown some neediness by being touchy and not being confident enough on my actions.
After that we texted for 2 weeks but she was always cold (1 liner and not opening up), she rarely initiated contact (only 3x).
I apologize as well during the text of all the bad things I have done to her and she told me that she is not mad at me.
I asked her if it’s still okay to message her and she said it’s just fine.
I thought that being open and honest would make a difference in putting her hands down, but it has been the same with cold and no effort in her replies.
But given this, I thought like it would be best for both of us just to move on and no longer reach out for her.
Any advice would be much appreciated.@blue888 How long were you a “couple” and what were her reasons for breaking up with you??
Don’t have any regrets that you came off as needy or apologized for all the bad things you did to her. It was all truth and I’m sure she appreciated your honesty. However, since she now knows how you feel, do not repeat yourself.
The breakup was 2 1/2 months ago. You pleaded for 3 weeks. After that, you apparently went NC for the next 3 weeks and then she initiated a contact and you two met up 2 days later. Then you two texted for 2 weeks and you were the initiating most of the texts. You wrote:”she rarely initiated contact (only 3x)”.
When was the last time you texted her? I have a feeling you’re texting too often.. Try NC again for a couple of weeks, but if you two do text, be upbeat and don’t mention the breakup. She probably needs more space if you mistreated her badly..
Thanks for the reply patricia12.
We were couple for more than 2 years. I was not able to commit and have taken her for granted. There must also be another guy (rebound) involved.@blue888 Were you in a serious committed love “relationship”? If so, then what do you mean by “not able to commit”?? Did she want a marriage proposal or something?
Were there other issues that caused her to break up with you?
Don’t jump to conclusions about another guy being involved and if you two are still communicating, do not bring up that topic or act jealous!!
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