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Hi,, i’m 21 and my ex is 18. We had been together for over 3 years… yeh of course , had spent alot of time together.
I am in my NC peroid for 1 month now. My ex ( he ) contacts me once a week or twice a week in my NC peroid. I’m just cool about it. Don’t pick it up as i think i’m not strong enough yet. I already showed him alot of desperation and neediness when we broke up. That’s why i think NC for 1 month is not enough for me. May be i think i should take more than 2 months. My ex is in new relationship now. Whatever, all i want to know here is what should i do with my facebook as I deactivated it since we broke up. I’m afraid to log in as there are a lot of his friends in my fb. Should i block them ? Should i unfriend them ? I want to log in by ignoring them but i can’t stand if they post photo that my ex also included. I think I can’t see my ex happy in even photo , status. I don’t wanna see anything concerned with my ex. It’s probably i can see that happiness of them indirectly from his fri. right ? What should i do ?I suggest that you just keep your FB deactivated for the time being like how it is now and mention to him that you need time and space for yourself and try to not reply his text messages or pick up his call. In the time being, go out and enjoy yourself, create a bucket list of the things you want to do but never had the opportunity to do so when you’re in a relationship, head out to the gym, chill with friends, or even do something extreme that you’ve never thought you could do, i.e. skydiving, scuba diving or hiking, check out whats available in your area. Ultimately you’ve got to head out there and start doing something and get yourself back. All the best. 🙂
I agree. Fill your life up with activities. I deactivated my profile for a while then when I reactivated it I unsubscribed from my ex’s feed so that I don’t get his updates. I try to stay away from his page.
Thank you so much you guys . !! It really helps me. !! I think I need to get fat as my ex loves me to get fat. Recently , I do a lot of fantasy that I haven’t done for a long time. I also try to improve my life .Especially as a happy person. But I need time ! Right ??
Is it true that I won’t see any update if I unsubscribe from someone’s feed without making bloke or unfriend ? If it is true , I don’t need to make block or unfriend to his friends . I can unsubscribe ,, hum ?? Please kindly reply me as I don’t know some function in Facebook. Thank you so much My friends !!Hi Khine, I’m glad that youre looking at the bright side of things and getting yourself out there. As for the get fat thought, I would prefer to have a sexy hourglass figured girlfriend (thats coming from a guy’s perspective), however it is still up to personal preference, which is always very subjective. However I would suggest being yourself, be it fat or slim. Be the person you want to be for yourself and not for the sake of your ex. You’ve got to be happy with yourself inside out before you can bring happiness to others.
As for the FB thingy, try google for on how to select the functions. I believe its possible as I’ve done that before, but that was ages ago.
All the best in being yourself. We’re always here to support you. Oh yeah, you might want to take a pic before and after your change to see how you’ve transform over the period that you’ve set for yourself. Cheers. 🙂
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